I hate people telling me "you should give him a bottle every once in a while so you can go do things sometimes" like I just got him weaned off the nipple shield. No way in hell I'm going to confuse him now. That was wayyy to stressful to go through again. If I don't have to give him a bottle then I'm not going to. I'm a mom now. I don't get time to myself. At least while he's this young. I'm not ready to leave him with anyone for more than an hour or two anyway. It's my choice if he bas a bottle or not. Obviously ik nobody else can whip their boob out and feed him without him drinking a bottle. And if I choose to breastfeed him over leaving him with someone if I don't have to then that's my choice.
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Right? Not only that but I knew the second we decided to have a baby that that means no more me time. Cause it's not about me anymore. Yes eventually I will. And there is times I need his daddy to take him but seriously? Bottles can cause nipple confusion and a few times by myself is not worth the fight off breaking him from a bottle.
Idk why everyone suggests you leave your child, I'm the same way so many people tell me that I should give my son a bottle so I can have my own time, no thank you I like my time with my son
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
opinions?
I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
Recommendations on bottles? My son is refusing a bottle he's mostly on the boob but everyone once in a while I pump and give him bottles and now he's refusing to drink from it😩
I cut the cable
I decided to get rid of cable ?. I'm hoping I don't regret it! I'm on a big saving splurge now that I have a lo. Anyone else get rid of cable? How's it going?
Plus if I don't nurse him I still have to pump anyway so what's the point?