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Ashley Sims
Ashley Sims
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I hate people telling me "you should give him a bottle every once in a while so you can go do things sometimes" like I…

I hate people telling me "you should give him a bottle every once in a while so you can go do things sometimes" like I just got him weaned off the nipple shield. No way in hell I'm going to confuse him now. That was wayyy to stressful to go through again. If I don't have to give him a bottle then I'm not going to. I'm a mom now. I don't get time to myself. At least while he's this young. I'm not ready to leave him with anyone for more than an hour or two anyway. It's my choice if he bas a bottle or not. Obviously ik nobody else can whip their boob out and feed him without him drinking a bottle. And if I choose to breastfeed him over leaving him with someone if I don't have to then that's my choice.

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avahcruz

Avah Cruz

Idk why everyone suggests you leave your child, I'm the same way so many people tell me that I should give my son a bottle so I can have my own time, no thank you I like my time with my son

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mrs.sims

Ashley Sims

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Right? Not only that but I knew the second we decided to have a baby that that means no more me time. Cause it's not about me anymore. Yes eventually I will. And there is times I need his daddy to take him but seriously? Bottles can cause nipple confusion and a few times by myself is not worth the fight off breaking him from a bottle.

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mrs.sims

Ashley Sims

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Plus if I don't nurse him I still have to pump anyway so what's the point?

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?