Caitlin Vanek Reiser
caitv123
Caitlin Vanek Reiser·Мама двоих (младенец)

Long vent: I am beyond tired of family trying to force a positive relationship between me and my sibling.

Every time I've taken a step in the past to just be done with them, I get a call from my mother/father, and when I explain what happened, every. single. time I've been told to 'be the bigger person' and 'she'll mature and get better, family is important so try to make things good between.'

I have two kids now, and a husband. I don't have the time or mental capacity to put up with someone's constant bullshit anymore. I finally cut them out, haven't associated in weeks - and then there comes the phone call about how 'heartbreaking' it is, and when alls I have to say is 'it's not the end of my world, that's for sure' I get hastily hung up on.

I feel so dead inside; like, I hate feeling guilty because I know in my heart I don't have a reason to. But here I am feeling upset because I don't want my mom to be hurt. It sucks when one sibling can do no wrong in my parents eyes - except when they do, it's on me to make sure I smooth it over and act like it never happened. I'm sorry, but there is only so much I can put up with, and we passed that mark already 😞✌🏻

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mrsmord
Lori 🍕·Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

It's so exhausting ! And irritating . It's like. I live in her shadow 🙄

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caitv123
Caitlin Vanek Reiser·Мама двоих (младенец)

@mrsmord, yes ma'am! We are in the same boat, that's for sure! 🙄 its damn exhausting.

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mrsmord
Lori 🍕·Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

@caitv123, I feel you. I got into a major issue with my sis and bil and of course I was the one that had to be the bigger person because she can never do anything wrong . My dad sees her like she is gd or something . Serious nullshit

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caitv123
Caitlin Vanek Reiser·Мама двоих (младенец)

@mrsmord, dude it SUCKS! Like, I love my parents dearly, but I am absolutely unwilling to put up with selfish fuckery from my sib anymore. Lord have mercy 🙁

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mrsmord
Lori 🍕·Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

Wow u described my entire life in this post lol. I have the same issues

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