The realization that someone you chose to spend your life with could be so hateful and cruel is the worst. I have everything under my name because he is illegal and have began to turn off lights and water. His gf can help him out im sure... I struggle with my next step. I need to shut down the company dba as its in my name, he is receiving checks through the company name ie. Me. I have to protect myself as if anything goes wrong i am liable. Lastly is accounts that are under the same name, they are all COD accounts but they are still under my name. If he says i never did nothing for our relationship then this shouldn't matter right? But i know it does... I think he deserves this, he doesn't care that he humiliated me with the most unattractive thing that hes ever cheated on me with and shes already talking shit about me on facebook. So shes not completely innocent. He has no regard for my feelings, i would never had done something so public, but here i am worried about his feelings. I need advice... Call the companies he orders materials for and close accounts or let God handle him?
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@lola-tx, it took me a while to find peace with the situation... they were engaged before we even filed for divorce... I don't know how people can do things like that... but I know in my heart, im so much better off now! And you will be too!
@dreamermom im so sorry that happened to you. How can people be so cruel? Mine says hes Christian and the ow says theyre in love and with god they will get through anything... Ive since blocked both of them on facebook but it still hurts uncontrollably. I hope to find peace soon.
Mine was not the same situation... but my ex left me in a similar situation... all the bills and utilities were in my name, he and I had been fighting about how I never allowed him to do anything 'fun' with our money... so about 4-5 months before he split I said fine, you pay all the bills! And handed him everything... he used the money to fund his affair, and by the time I realized what was going on, we had disconnect notices on all our utilities, our rent was 3 months behind... I worked for a school system, and I literally came home to an empty house, my last day of classes! I literally had 1 paycheck coming and no job! He had called in sick to work, and took anything that was not nailed down that he could pawn! Stole all my laundry baskets to pack it up in, and was just GONE! That's the day I found out about the affair! A few days later, I got served judgement papers for a credit card he maxed out in my name... and told me he paid off with our tax money the year before... apparently he had been hiding the bill from me... 🙄😒🤦♀️ so I can relate to what you are feeling... it's so frustrating, and heartbreaking to have someone you trusted and loved betray you in the most intense possible way! I literally spent the next 2 years trying to get everything caught up and paid off! But I did it... and he's now someone else's problem! I found a good man who would NEVER do something like that to me! I know it's hard, but he did you a favor... you don't need someone like that in your life!
This does not include AT&T phone account which is over 2000, a home depot cc which is also over 2000 and a lowes account for over 1000. He stopped paying to play house with a gutter slut.
@beautifulreyna @thewilliamsfamily @dreamermom @jessica.deshields. spoke to a legal aide and was advised to close all accounts. He is flaunting publicly how and where he is spending money but is not paying any credit card debt he accured while doing business under my name. My business account is more than 500 over drafted. He has no intention of paying and since he has no ss# nothing will link to him its all gonna be on me to figure out how to handle. Ive been a sahm for 12 yrs, and he left everything unpaid for after i helped our family, no family, time to cut loses.
I said cancel everything that's under your name he don't deserve a good woman like you and if the other woman talking shit about you just block everything you have with him on social media she can help him if she is enough to talk shit about you and him knowing about it and not do shit I'm pretty sure she will help him with the company he don't deserve you, you can do better than him and he will regret it. It makes me mad that men don't give a fuck about how we feel specially while pregnant, so fuck him.
I agree, get your name off everything! You don't want that headache later... it could totally screw up your life for years!
I would cancel anything in your name because your receiving nothing out of it and it could bite you in the end when you have to pay taxes and what not since your the business owner.
@lola-tx 😘😘😘