Had the longest day even at work so many things went wrong. To top it off my ex never came to pick up our son for father's day. He would of course take me to court to not even follow the court order. Really feel like I'm doing everything and somehow keeping it together for my boy. He deserves someone who actually will step up and be there not just act like it.
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My dads about to be 50 don't hold your breath my grand parents were my dad my grandma and Pepop which are his parents took me when I was supposed to have visitation with him because he was either truck driving or followed my ex step mom to a different state and then when my mom needed help during the week her parents took me so my grandparents were my father so trust me I get it and see it from a child's point of view I will forewarn you it will get hard when he starts to notice it I can't remember how many times I cried saying to my mom why didn't my dad want me what did I do
I definitely will because I have my mom who helps me more than he ever has. I try to be that's why it upsets me that he can't even come and play with his son he'd rather sleep. He makes out to be the bad person it's hard having to deal with it. Don't get when he will ever grow up or be responsible instead of making excuses.
Don't blame you just keep everything for records for when you go back to court and just make sure you hold up your end and your son will come to see the light I know I have when it comes to my parents my dad blames my mom but I see how I felt when I was a kid was right he cares more about everyone else rather than his kids I always have to make first contact he only calls if there is a problem he never calls to check on me knowing I'm having complications nor his grandson can't blame my mom anymore just be the best mommy you can be
@mommysbabies I don't understand it either it took such a tol on my emotionally. It makes no sense he didn't even ask about father's day which he's supposed to be with him. He would come over to see him on his days off and would just fall asleep in my couch I kicked him out all three times. I'm officially done giving him another chance we deserve better.
A girl I went to high school with is going through the same thing he kept taking her to court for more time he got it and now that she is working on days he should have them he never shows up I don't get some people
I don't get why some men are like that and how they think it's okay I'll never understand. He's always chosen work over us so it's nothing new but doesn't ever get better. Its hard seeing it happen to my son. It was hard seeing all those father's day things on social media I can't say that has a good dad let alone one who's involved in his son's life.