Delete if not allowed. So tonight I tried "testing the waters" with a dildo to see if maybe me and hubby can finally have sex after 2 1/2 months. Before anything even got anywhere it was uncomfortable enough to make me want to stop as it just got worse and worse and I didn't actually want to hurt myself. I officially feel like damaged goods. I'm aware it'll take time and there are other things to do in the mean time, which we have been. But I need that closeness with him again.. And it don't look like it's too close into the future..
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Thanks ladies. He will be 3 months on the first and I expected it to be uncomfortable but I couldn't even get past half the tip without stopping. I also had an episiotomy and Dr said at 6 week check that I was more sore than I should be to give it till 8-12 weeks. Ik nobody can tell me when it'll happen but at least I felt like I had an idea of a time frame and if I go past 3 months then it's kind of like great now who knows how long it'll be
@mrs.sims .with My last baby it did take about 1 month and half to not feel sore in my vagina.My last 2 boys had wide shoulders and got stuck coming out of me... I know horomones everywhere too make u 🔥 but..like she said you will know when your ready..you just gave birth its a big process takes a woman's organs 1yr to go back into place
Give it time. Your body willlet you know when your ready.
Okay now that I'm 35 weeks pregnant I totally thought my husband would NOT want to have sex with me. But no. lol he's still wants it twice a day I'm like goodness I get cramps every time now! I love him but dang I thought me complaining all the damn time would make him not want to 😂🤦🏻♀️🙄 #pregnancyissues #pregnantmamawantsabreak
Hey ladies question so I’m messing with this guy and me and him been talking for a minute and we have been having sex and like some stuff is off like he don’t want me at his house and he’s 30 and like he comes round only at night time and like after we done having sex he hurry up and wash his self off like his face and mouth and penis with soap and when we kiss he want me to wipe my lipgloss off first
Does these sound like signs of him cheating and him having someone back at home ??????
Got a few minutes to decide if I want the epidural or not. I’ll have back labor which makes things 10 times worse..
i got my first hemmiroid today omg are u kidding me!!! it feels really uncomfortable will it still be okay to have sex or will it make the pressure worse/:
I guess it was just reassuring to know it SHOULD be fine by 12 weeks. And now I just feel bummed