Delete if not allowed. So tonight I tried "testing the waters" with a dildo to see if maybe me and hubby can finally have sex after 2 1/2 months. Before anything even got anywhere it was uncomfortable enough to make me want to stop as it just got worse and worse and I didn't actually want to hurt myself. I officially feel like damaged goods. I'm aware it'll take time and there are other things to do in the mean time, which we have been. But I need that closeness with him again.. And it don't look like it's too close into the future..
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Thanks ladies. He will be 3 months on the first and I expected it to be uncomfortable but I couldn't even get past half the tip without stopping. I also had an episiotomy and Dr said at 6 week check that I was more sore than I should be to give it till 8-12 weeks. Ik nobody can tell me when it'll happen but at least I felt like I had an idea of a time frame and if I go past 3 months then it's kind of like great now who knows how long it'll be
@mrs.sims .with My last baby it did take about 1 month and half to not feel sore in my vagina.My last 2 boys had wide shoulders and got stuck coming out of me... I know horomones everywhere too make u 🔥 but..like she said you will know when your ready..you just gave birth its a big process takes a woman's organs 1yr to go back into place
Give it time. Your body willlet you know when your ready.
I guess it was just reassuring to know it SHOULD be fine by 12 weeks. And now I just feel bummed