It's the same in my household. Once/twice and a week if we are lucky. But between his work schedule and me running around with the kiddo - we are just exhausted most times.

@nicolem10021, Right , I have talked with a few married friends and they say the phase is just that a phase . With much more positive than negative . It will begin to pass when we both have somewhat adequate sleep schedules.. My husband is 9 years older than me (you wouldn't be able to tell ) lmao people think he's in his twenties . I doubt that is the reason also .

Since I've been pregnant this time, I'm always in the mood for sex during times it not an option, like while he's at work, or when the kids are up.

But by the time the kids are in bed and everything, I'm just too friggin tired, lol.

It's sucks for both of us.

I know what you mine. Isnt even every week lol. Hes not as sexual or intimate as i am. but the love and everything is still there. Hes 5 years older then me but i dout thats why