So my hubby works graveyards and hadls to sleep most of the day. I don't mind that but it bothers me that on his "days" off he doesn't really help out. We're looking at buying a house, which we desperately need. I know I'll be packing and unpacking by myself. Again I van do that. I just know I'm getting close to my burnout point and I have no chance to just unwind from the day. The kids stay up way late and so I'm up really late and hubby needs cuddle time so I go to bed to cuddle before he goes to work. I can't get up really early because of how late I get to bed. I haven't gone or with friends in months or had good me time in weeks. Any tips on how to get some before I burnout?
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@opaquetitan1 thanks for the tips :) I just hate feeling like this every day. We're hoping he gets the new position he applied for.
Boy do I understand. The thing that helped me the most was putting my LO to bed a little earlier then I normally would let her stay up till. When she was asleep I would shower, pamper myself a tiny bit like paint my nails and put on a TV show on low. The thing I always have to remember is that it is OK to allow myself a little time alone. So even if it is his day off it sort of is your day too. When he wakes up just ask if he can help make lunch or something. Or maybe pack up some of his stuff himself. I know it feels kinda crappy to ask for help on his day off but you are gonna burn out doing it all yourself. I've been to that point and its not fun. Keep your head up mamma ❤
@ldial6411 I understand. I hope he gets it!