I'd be more hurt and irritated than mad.. guess it depends on the person, since everyone is different.

I don't get mad with my husband but that's because he's unlike any man I've known or have seen. Now, ask me this whole with an ex, I might have been butthurt.

@babyboy1117, I wasn't offended and I hope I didn't offend you. To each his own. I'm still hurt inside over what he did. But life goes on. Lol thank you.

@morganmommy79

Well I wasn't meaning your situation specifically, I just meant she should try talking to him about what he likes and reassure him that she's not gonna judge. My bf hid his porn tastes for years before he realized I really didn't care what he liked. He would literally plant normal porn sites in his history so I wouldn't catch on. Just as long as he understood what I was and was not willing to do lol but your ex sounds like a douche bag, I'm sorry he didn't respect you enough, nobody deserves that.

@babyboy1117, I don't judge anyone for what they do. It's their business. She asked what people thought so I told her my opinion. lol I just know it ruined my marriage. We are divorced because he started with porn then started lusting after every woman we ran into. Then he started lying about where he was, started talking to women on dating sites. When he watched porn it made me feel unwanted, ugly and useless when I was laying right there next to him and he chose to jack off to other women. Wasn't I good enough? No. It ruined our sex life with each other. I flat out told my husband (now) before we married that if he's into porn I wouldn't marry him. It just made me feel sick to my stomach knowing my ex husband was fantasizing about those women and the extremely personal things they did. He chose them. Not me. It gave him a false sense of what women should do for men and I never measured up because I wasn't horny 24/7. I was exhausted from housework, jobs and children. Anyway, I could ramble all day about things. 🤐😁😋

My bf does do it to porn. And maybe some guys don't particularly get turned on only by girls so they look at all the 100s of porn genres and then they are embarrassed and afraid to admit it. Idk, I like porn so I guess it's just not a big deal to me. @morganmommy79

@babyboy1117, she's talking about jacking off to porn not just doing it randomly. I think all guys do. My ex did and it turned me on but when he started doing it to porn and not next to me it changed everything. I was no longer what turned him on. It was other women. That's what hurts about the whole thing 😕

@expectingbaby5 then yupp. I'd be pissed ¬ only that I was home &already in bed for him to come make his move.. . But to also be on a dry spell for 2 weeks. . Wouldn't fly with me either. .. but the further I get along the more weirded out my fiance gets about having sex.. . .But if I want it that bad, I just take advantage with or without his permission 😂😂.

((Not literally, 1. I don't need permission that's my property now, & 2. He caves with just a few simple moves I know he won't resist)) lol

@expectingbaby5

Maybe he didn't want to wake you?

My bf masturbates every single morning right next to me lol the only time I get mad is when I wish I could be horny too, but I'm too uncomfortable or in pain. Just because we're suffering doesn't mean the men also have to.

Yes, I know mine does it when im asleep and everytime I feel hurt and super unwanted. I confronted him one day and he said he's cause the baby scares him but he was doing that shit before too. 🙄🙄

I would ask him why he didn't wake you up

I like when my bf sends me videos of him doing it 😩😂

Not to mention we havent had sex in almost 2 weeks

I was in the bedroom he went to the bathroom while I was sleep@kmarie1303

If I was already home & he felt he had to go in the bathroom instead of getting it in, then yes! Butt

If I came home &caught him in action no, id probably be turned on 😂 & we'd end up in bed. I say that bc when I find it on his computer I know that night it's on, because it makes me want it.

My ex used to do that. Made me feel useless.

@cb958805 exactly how im feeling

I would be mad, hurt, disappointed, and wonder why he didn't just come to me for a piece in the first place.

@morganmommy79 Exactly!!!!!!!!!!

Yes. I caught my ex husband doing that quite a bit. And hello?? If im available why does he need porn? All it does is make a wife or girlfriend feel ugly and unwanted when her man does that. No need for it.

Nope...I know mines do it. He tells me he gonna do it and everything

Same I would be more hurt than mad

Girl i caught mines i was more upset then pissed honestly it hurt me more no lie