So I am super annoyed and upset. I chose not to do a baby shower for my son decided to do a welcoming party instead, now I'm not able to even have to that cause it's too much to ask people to come celebrate with my husband and i. Meanwhile my SIL had a baby shower for her 4th baby (after she told me she didnt want a baby shower when i mentioned we should have double baby shower cause our due dates were 2 weeks apart) and idk seems like I'm given the short end of the stick. My son is the 1st male born in the family since my husbands birth you think it be more of a big deal. I'm just a little bitter I guess