When I had my daughter I ended up tearing and having to get stitches (she had to get vacuumed out because her heart rate was dropping). I was wondering if I should expect to rip again or not? It took what seemed like forever to heal last time.
I tore just a tiny bit with my first and got one stitch. Nothing with my second. It's been 12 years since I had a baby so not sure what to expect with my third lol
Ive heard that with the 2nd or 3rd you don't rip as bad because its been stretched out. How true that is I am not sure. However there is a massage you can do to thw perinial that will help
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
I'm just afraid of tearing again, it was so painful last time.