To all moms can you please tell me how can you be a constant disappointment to your kids?? I mean my sister has 2 boys and she puts men before them all the time and constantly give them false promises and I really hate hurting their feelings but their mom don't care ****excuse my language**** but she don't care 2 shits about them we had them for almost 4 months now I believe and she comes by sometimes and she stay for a half sec and while she's here she's on the phone and then she leaves and tells them she coming back and she never do these kids get child support from their dad but do you think they see it? Hell to the hell no. These kids want things and want to do things but their mom tell them she don't have the money and she don't said time for them when they ask me I have to bust their bubble and tell them they aren't my responsibility I don't get any money for them. I'm sick and tired of this I really am. All these kids life their mom been a disappointment
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@ccanela26 i would call Dpss on your sister and if they say ok they are going into the system tell them no youll take them and i believe youll get money for them not your sister
@ccanela26 what state are you in? That is horrible to hear all schools have counselors..and many are covered by even medicaid too..
@sherrynygirl to be honest with you honey the school don't see anything wrong when my mom called about the abuse they told her there was nothing they could do that's how DSS got involved because the school was turning a blind eye on the situation, stuff like that is one of the reasons why I'm homeschooling my daughter
@ccanela26 .maybe at their school they can get free counseling..yes they've been thru a lot and i wish them them happiness in their lives..hopefully your sister will get it together for her son's and her own well being
@sherrynygirl yeah it kills me she can keep men who abuses her mentally and physically she don't realize her life affects her kids life. My parents have cut her lose and said they aren't guiding her any more. I feel sorry for her when these boys get older and I pray they don't end up like the man who abused them. I seriously had to break them down and tell them stop hitting my daughter and pushing her for no reason because that's how he did them and their mom. I pray for her to come to her scene and just focus on herself and her kids but men cripple her they are her criptanight and she well never get rid of them
@ccanela26 Wow you said enough....i have 2 sister's they are older than me..we are all dif from same parent's too.How dare she let a man beat her child...what a piece of shit..no respect she or her garbage men she chooses in their lives! I can't stand women who allow a man to do that to their child just disgusted...some people won't change she needs mental help
@sherrynygirl oh honey trust me they have lots of clothes at their mom's house she just don't bring them over her she thinks DSS is giving them back to her in my opinion they shouldn't go back to her she let some broke ass Nigga and I do stress Nigga and I do apologize if that word offended anyone but she let a broke as Nigga beat her son because he got Fs on his grade report and in my opinion the guys she's dating now and yes I do mean guys there's no telling what she'll let the next one do to them. I know they not my responsibility but even when I have the last penny in my pocket I choose to give it to them. My parents do the best they can but bills come first and my dad is the only working my mom had bad back problems so she can't work and she's waiting on the disability to accept her. I've always been there for my nephews since they were born
@ccanela26 .they are lucky to have you but...pregnancy hormone s are probably stressing you out.I feel bad for your nephew s wow Not every woman is meant to be a mom! I wouldn't personally tell them they aren't your responsibility because .. They are children and children are very smart they know their mom isn't around...just some advice from a mom of 21yrs..maybe a food bank in your area can help with extra food. And clothes for them its not their fault ..You have a good heart..maybe your parent's and you can take turns watching them..
@rmreed thanks babe just having someone to talk to is good
@ccanela26 Yeah I don't doubt that I'm sure it's hard..I wish I could send stuff
@rmreed yeah I get it WIC and Foodstamps for me and my daughter and the boys are 8 and 9 and that $357 between me my parents them and my daughter isn't easy.
@ccanela26 do you get food stamps or anything?? How old are they?
@rmreed yeah i don't like telling them that either they know i love them to death and I really wish i was financially stable to take care of them but I'm not I feed them as much as i can but $357 every month don't go as far as I want it to especially when they are the only picky ones in the house. I keep telling them I can't support their wants I can only do their needs and even then they don't appreciate it.
I wouldn't tell them they're not your responsibility...their mother not being there is enough heart break for a child but hearing that from someone thats supposed to love and care for them? I just can't imagine saying that to a child...they have become your responsibility and if you don't want that/can't financially handle it then something else needs to happen. I feel so bad for them, I'm sorry she's like that...what a damn shame. I hope it all works out..love those babies!
@allyk.xmommy thanks babe it's a constant hassle with this I don't think I can do any more of this especially now that I'm pregnant I don't need the stress. That's why I don't take advice from her because she don't know how to raise her own kids how can she tell me how to raise mine
Good. Good luck hun. I hope things work out for u.
@allyk.xmommy yeah all that is in process now with family court.
@ccanela26 she has the child support but isn't giving it to you? I would report her to court. She'll have to pay back every penny or go to jail
@allyk.xmommy DSS already placed them with us and their dad is working with family court to get the child support transfer to us. But as of now it's just been hell for me
Why not report her? Then you can get financial assistance for them
@blessed_mommy6 yeah they are with me and my parents DSS had them placed with us for 40 days then the judge added 60-70 more days to that and we had them since March