So my Dr recommended that I wait until I'm 37 weeks to decide whether I want a csection or not...…
So my Dr recommended that I wait until I'm 37 weeks to decide whether I want a csection or not... She said she'd like to see at my 37 weeks US if they are both head down she wants me to deliver vaginally... i don't know how to feel about this. 1st, that gives me less than 1 week to get someone here to help with my husband. 2nd, I wanted a csection because I want my husband there for the births and with being induced and vaginally delivering our babies he may not be there because of how much pain he will be in while sitting in his wheelchair. I want to do what's best for the babies but I want my husband their to help me through it and witness his only children being born... I'm so confused as of what to do. She said she is giving me the choice. Csection or vaginal.
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Why not just ask someone to help anyway since you will need it and if you don't then they can go. If you ask now then when you make the decision later you have help lined up.
Jasmine Cleveland 💕·
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@beebaby I've asked people. No one wants to help really. Everyone sees it as such a burden.. his dad said he'd help (if) he is in town and his brother said he won't help no matter what. My mom's bf will help but he has no clue how to use his medical equipment correctly
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You can write it down for them plus he knows how to use it so he can show them right?
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He cant show them because he doesnt really know how to use it hes never had to its pretty simple but if you move something the wrong way he will end up landing in the floor @beebaby I wish I could just do this stuff.
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@kitcatmeow8383 He never has time to come here. He works all day everyday and gets off work at 11 at night most nights 🙁
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His dad hasnt used this stuff in 4 years but he has had some experience with it so I'm hoping he will be in town I've spoken to him about it and told him about the time frame it'll all happen in but he seemed so unsure of everything
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I know you want him there but I think you should do what's best for yourself and the babies . Vaginal is less healing time. C section is more work . If you have a choice to go vaginal and you can then you should.
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@mami1234 He told me to do it... I'm just scared that if I go be induced it'll take forever and I don't know if I can mentally do it... I need him there cause if he's not there I think I might not be able to do it... worrying about the babies, myself, and him not being there I think might make me panic
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@kitcatmeow8383 Yeah I'm definitely weighing the good and bad... And yes my mom's bf works on and installs AC units so when someone calls him at whatever time it might be he leaves and goes and fixes what needs to be done he rarely takes a day off even works Sunday's most of the day and spends any extra time taking his grandkids places.
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@twinmomma2b hun just remember you got this . You can do it without him . I believe in you
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@kitcatmeow8383 He told me if he needed to he'd just go I'm his calls a little late that day or if it's super early like 7am he'd come help before he went to work
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@mami1234 Thank you! I'm just scared of being alone... My mom isn't very reliable these days and the only person I can count on is my husband.. My sister even told me she isn't coming to see me until way after they are born... maybe not at all til I'm home 😔
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@twinmomma2b awww I'm sorry hun. Hopefully someone will be there but just know either way you can do it😁😁😁😁
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Thank you @mami1234 I appreciate it.
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Oh bummer