My professor had her first baby at 38 and I had my first baby at 21. I am not sure there is a right or wrong time to have kids, it is just whenever works for you. Either way everyone judges you lol at 21 people say you're too young and didn't get to live your life at 38 people say you're too old and won't be able to enjoy yourself.

@kitcatmeow8383, you say so*** I never said there was right or wrong I just don't personally want to be on my 50s with a teenager and I don't really see any personal benefits for myself to wait until such a older age

@kitcatmeow8383, hahahah if I say so

@deckroth2001, wow I'm very surprised to hear that but I'm happy for u

I just had my first baby at 21 and last one at 38 and I will say 38 is way better then 21!

@teniera, thank u

@teniera, I agree 100% i think it's too old also I'm 27 n i was gonna stop trying cuz I'm too old but I got pregnant with #4 last minute yay lol

I personally will be done having all my kids by 28 n would not want to start any older then my 20s