Man, I dunno what the heck to do with my MIL. I'm literally on my last straw. She has planned for her, my SO, LO and I to go to texas with her for a week (we live in NY), cool I was all about it til she said she wanted to do it 2wks before my due date. I decided it would be best for me to stay home while my LO and SO went, she insisted that I still go after my doctor even said I shouldn't. She has finally left it alone and says my SO should stay back with me while she takes my LO, now I'm iffy on that only because the furthest away our LO has ever been away without us is 45mins down the road. What if something happens to her in texas? It's not that I don't trust my MIL, I just don't want my 1.5yr old so far from us in the even something happens. My MIL now thinks I hate her and don't trust her with my LO which is not the case, she gets her overnights on weekends all the time. What should I do? Am I wrong for feeling going from NY to Texas is just too far without a parent? I have no clue what to do.