On the outside looking in someone told me wow you are so lucky , married with children , you have a job you love , your so pretty you bounced back after have had three children , your husband sings in Spanish you can see the love you have for each other and your children are beautiful .. and instead of explaining how difficult it is some days or bringing down every truth to the sweet statement this person made (because I analyze everything and some days I am harder on myself than I should be) I just smiled and accepted the fact that EVERYTHING worth having is not going to be easy . If it was , everyone would have it . So I'm thankful for what I have and what I don't have yet because I'm not missing much from the outside looking in.