Ok.... I am 30 years old my husband is 28 and every weekend he wants to go out and drink with friends. If we ever just stay home or I ask if we can do stuff as a family or anything like that, he complains about money but IF his friends call to hang out he is all for it. I don't mind hanging out with other married people every once in awhile but like every weekend and drinking and personally I feel like it's too much also I feel like my husband does not enjoy any time with me. He comes home and we hardly speak. I try to do things he enjoy but it's so hard to enjoy xbox when it's just us he never wants to go anywhere unless it's with his friends drinking. He doesn't even try to connect with my son any more he comes home and we are just roommates who hardly speak hardly have sex and I am like his stay home maid who cleans up his mess and feed him. I try to talk to him but he gets upset or ignore me. I am so fed up and emotional and I am stuck I am married to a cold man, and I am from California and have no one who can help me or at least help me understand what is going on with my husband.