How do I do this?? How do I just move on after 14yrs together?? Does the hurt last?? Does the love fade?? How can I coparent with someone I still truly love but can't have anymore?? I just want to scream and punch and cry!!!! I don't want to lose my family. Why can't he love me?? Why are we not enough?? Was I that bad of a wife?? I'm struggling to just look ok with all of this but deep down I'm broken
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@melamomma3, I'm sure to hear about your hard time. My daughter's father and I are going through a 'love together separation' after 11 years and these situations are truly challenging. Just keep your kids and yourself first. There will be good moments and bad. Just take them as they come, do your best and never judge yourself for your feelings.
@dhamiphoenix, thank you. I'm trying to be hopeful that he may see greener grass but that grass is poisoned.
@lola-tx, I'm sorry you are going thru this too. We can go thru it together lol
It's ok to get mad. He is walking away from one of the most important commitments a person can make. Hopefully he figures out whatever he is trying to figure out...i will keep you and your family in my prayers. Know you are good enough. You are good enough.
I'm in the same boat... I've been with my husband for 20 years. It's super hard but I'm hopeful things will get better
@dhamiphoenix, thank you. I just am trying so hard to be civil and try to work things out because he is being so understanding and still wanting to take care of us until I can get on my feet.
@rmreed, thank you. I'm trying so hard to be that rock for them but I haven't had my break down yet.
Oh sweet don't think like that. My first marriage blew up like am atomic bomb and I crashed hard. I felt so worthless and unloved....t was all things I thought of myself. Build up that self confidence because you ARE amazing. The right someone will love you so well you will wonder why you ever felt broken before. Keep hope darling, you are a woman and an amazing mom and that is something to be proud of
@dhamiphoenix, I hope so. He has been my rock and my strength when I couldn't. He has been there thru my darkest times. I just can't even think anymore. I'm so scared that I won't find someone that will love or even like me because I'm so broken.
@melamomma3 And you're an incredible mother for that! Cry behind closed doors, they need you to be strong. I'm here if you ever need anything. One day at a time!
@rmreed, I'm trying. I'm so broken and trying to hide it. I'm trying so hard to be strong for the girls.
@js_kidsmom, thank you. Please prayer for my girls during this time. This is the only place I can put my feelings down because I'm not posting anything on my FB about it yet.
Your feelings are heard mama. I would be crushed too. You stay strong for those babies of yours. If he wants to walk away you can't stop him but you can control how you react for your children. Show them how a real woman and mom handles the pressure. Rise like a Phoenix love...you will rise again ❤️
I'm so sorry, I cant even imagine. One day itll all be okay again, you got this!!
I feel so sorry for you. I honestly don't know how I would be in your situation. Like my heartbreaks for you. What I do know is that a lot of people go through this and manage to make out of it. You can overcome whatever obstacles come your way. I know its hard and your entitled to hurt cry scream go a little mad but remember its temporary. Take this time to focus on yourself and on your children.
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