Okay I'm a young mom I'm 18 turning 19 , my son will be 7 weeks on Monday and I hate that I still love his daddy. His dad is 20 , so here's a backstory :
I was 17 when I found out I was pregnant he was 19 , I turned 18 a month later and when I told him he wasn't the happiest and he was pushing for me to get an abortion but left me when I said no. Fast forward he wanted a second chance but I was too angry with him and said no. Now I wanna be with him and have my family back but he doesn't want to anymore but I feel like deep down he loves me still he just won't say it. How do I move on or how do I get him to try again ?
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Well in my experience, my boyfriend was also pushing for an abortion. I went to the appointments and all but just couldn't go through with it. My boyfriend and I are still together, but every time I complain about how much the baby cries, or I'm tired or I ask him to help, change a diaper, or I tell him I wanna go to school or work night shifts, he throws it at my face. He says that I'm the one who wanted a kid and not him. Every argument ends like that. Don't get me wrong he helps and all but in the end that's what he does. I would say just think about it, sometimes what you really want is usually what you're better off without.
I was in your shoes. But just because y'all have a baby doesn't mean y'all have to be together. He isn't in our sons life much anymore. Do what will make you happy.
@janet_, I know 😩 you're right I just want my family back I'm in love with him we were together for a year before I got pregnant and he always told me he wanted a baby and that if it happened he would be happy but when it actually did happen he was the complete opposite and it just hurt me so bad