Me and hubby talking about doing the do..and I tell him we cant do missionary anymore because I'm 18 weeks and I'm getting bigger. So I suggest to him like baby I can get on top and he goes "no bae that will be to much weight"...im like wtf! Are u serious? So yea he hurt my feelings but he keeps apologizing saying he didn't mean to say it. It was an accident.. I'm like no no no smh..im already in my feelings about my weight...😔😔
My fiance is a fatty and still complained about my weight being ontop but it was mainly If I leaned forward or sorta laid down on top of him. I found it best if I was on top to sit pretty straight up. Only downfall was it caused a little uncomfy pressure for me in that area.
i haven't tried ontop-- due to a fear of my weight -- but u should be fine if u find a comfortable position. if not there's always doggy style 👍 dont give up u guys will find a position u both like
Thanks ladies