So my twin sister called me last night saying she found our paternal aunt (we are adopted) through ancestry DNA which ment she found our birth father. I don't know how to feel about it. I mean for family medical history it could be good. But the guy was in prison when we were born and I never forget my dad saying when they called him in prison to inform him we were being adopted that his rights were going to get relinquished the man asked my dad for money......Guess he doesn't remember us being born cause he had a stroke a few months back and we also have 3 more half siblings.....to be honest I never felt a connection with them they are complete strangers and we came from a rough backround so is it bad that I'm hesitant to get to know them seeing how my sister and I are doing well? But my twin just expects me to be as excited and I'm not all I can say is oh.....
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Do not do anything to add stress to your life mama. I have a father who's been mia on me my entire life - & if he was on his deathbed I wouldn't waste my time.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
I've been on the other side of this just recently. My adopted sister just found me 2 months ago after 28 years. If you want to message me you're more than welcome to. I obviously don't know what it's like being adopted but I definitely know the other side of things. I also do not know my birth father.