So my twin sister called me last night saying she found our paternal aunt (we are adopted) through ancestry DNA which ment she found our birth father. I don't know how to feel about it. I mean for family medical history it could be good. But the guy was in prison when we were born and I never forget my dad saying when they called him in prison to inform him we were being adopted that his rights were going to get relinquished the man asked my dad for money......Guess he doesn't remember us being born cause he had a stroke a few months back and we also have 3 more half siblings.....to be honest I never felt a connection with them they are complete strangers and we came from a rough backround so is it bad that I'm hesitant to get to know them seeing how my sister and I are doing well? But my twin just expects me to be as excited and I'm not all I can say is oh.....
I've been on the other side of this just recently. My adopted sister just found me 2 months ago after 28 years. If you want to message me you're more than welcome to. I obviously don't know what it's like being adopted but I definitely know the other side of things. I also do not know my birth father.