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Tiffany
Tiffany
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I am beyond pissed! So my MIL and SIL did not come to the baby shower for our first. My mom and grandparents did…

I am beyond pissed! So my MIL and SIL did not come to the baby shower for our first. My mom and grandparents did everything! They also didn't help out with our wedding. My family did it all. Then they gave us nothing for our second baby (not that we were expecting anything). Now my SIL is pregnant with her third baby. She doesn't have custody nor does she care about her other two. My MIL is buying her everything she needs and throwing her baby shower. On top of that, she's mad my husband isn't going to the shower. He doesn't want to take the boys and he's pissed that they didn't come to ours. I'm going to keep peace but I didn't wanna go either!!!

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jaxmomma

Tiffany

Мама двоих (младенец)

@sumria, she only wants people to go so she can get gifts. She told people oh it's okay you can come. Just send something. So ignorant! She better not expect a lot from us. She's getting a bathing suit and 2 outfits and that's all

jessicalyn

Jessica Russell

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (40 нед.)

@jaxmomma, I wouldn't go. No way! Why is she better then you?! I'd give the gift and say you can't make it. I don't plan on going to my SIL when she has her first kid. I'm having a girl and she got me a tux for my daughter and a random OPEN pack of diapers.. like wtf.. she married my brother and hates my family dearly. It would be different if they couldn't afford anything but my brother tells me they make a killing with them both working. Made me so fucking mad.

keepingupwithhj

R🐘

Мама сына (1 год)

I wouldn't go

gsantiago29

Gee 🦋

Мама сына (7 лет)

I agree with everyone else. Why should you go? I'd listen to your husband as well.

brookemmoore

🙏𗂝👨‍👩‍👧‍👦Brooke M Moore🏹🏃‍♀️📚

Мама троих детей

I wouldn't go. No way. I have a crappy SIL too. She's only seen her nephew, my son, twice since he was born and he will be a year next month and she never came to my baby shower either. She is also always posting pics on FB of her cousins child who she spends SO much time with and calling HIM her nephew! I finally had enough and blocked her stupid ass. She's the one missing out, not my son.

del_1532019671_jaygirls

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Mil always chose their girls over their boys for some reason. Its all good you don't need them

So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s…

So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that

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