
ashnicole3xAshley Nicole Messick·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)
Pleaseeee someone help me with this.
From 8 Months Pregnant, until 2 Weeks, 6 Days Postpartum, I did not have sex with my Husband. Up until 8 Months Pregnant we had sex EVERY NIGHT practically, but when I hit the 8th Month mark, I had no energy at all.
Anyways, after I had my Son, they told me no sex or, anything in vagina for SIX WEEKS. Well, at 2 Weeks, 6 Days Postpartum, I ended up having sex with my Husband. Now, I'm sure there are a lot of people judging me but, my Husband begged me, made me feel guilty. This might be too much information but, he wanted me to do "other things" to please him, if I did not want sex. Ever since I got Pregnant this time, I did not feel like that type to give him "other things" so, with him begging, and begging, I eventually gave in, told him he has to pull out. Yes, I know that is NOT the best way for birth control.. but, it is what it is... we've done it before and, it was successful. Anyways, we got too caught up in the moment, he never pulled out.... yes, stupid decision..
Not soon after, I started having pain where my incision is (I had a C-Section, baby was big 9lbs, 9oz) the pain would subside when I'd take an ibreprofan. Anyways BEFORE we had sex, the bleeding was getting lighter, and the pain was about gone. Then we had sex ONE TIME, and the bleeding is heavier than what it was but, not too much heavier. I had headaches, pain urinating, fever, chills, loss of appetite, etc.
Yesterday, I became 4 Weeks Postpartum and, I had enough with the pain so, I went to the nearest hospital, the Doctor was RUDE! She felt my stomach and everything she touched, I said "ow" she would touch my gallbladder, my appendix, my intestines, etc, I would say "ow". She made a remark saying "everything things? Which one is it." So "so your diagnosis is your gallbladder, appendix, intestines, Bowles, etc" then, the one Nurse came in and asked what the verdict was and the Doctor goes "apparently everything". I thought that was rude...
She then did a pelvic exam and, turns out, I have a uterus infection. I've read scary things online so I had questions. I asked he Nurse if I'd be able to have kids, she said yes! She said the Doctor can explain it better between what I have and the most alarming one, where you can't have kids. So, I asked the Doctor and, the Doctor was having like a pissy attitude. As if she thought I was trying to have a baby because she said, "you don't need another one right now, you just had a C-Section" well no dip Sherlock. I'm worried about my future because I have two boys and, I want a daughter or at least one more child! She kept saying "it depends it depends" shaking her head, like she was getting irritated. So, then I was in so much pain, I asked her besides my antibiotics, can she send me home with some ibreprofan because it seems to help me she said "no, you can get those over the counter"
She was so mean like, yes, I did what I did, was not a smart decision... but, I learned my lesson. But, just because I did that ONE MISTAKE, you are not going to give me a prescription for a NON-Painkiller? It's just Motrin! They made me seem like I was a drug addict as well... I told her I don't have money for ibreprofan that, my insurance would cover it and she still wouldn't give me one!
So, tell me what YOU think or would do about this Doctor.. did anyone else on here have a infection in uterus and be able to have kids in the future?