Pleaseeee someone help me with this.
From 8 Months Pregnant, until 2 Weeks, 6 Days Postpartum, I did not have sex with my Husband. Up until 8 Months Pregnant we had sex EVERY NIGHT practically, but when I hit the 8th Month mark, I had no energy at all.
Anyways, after I had my Son, they told me no sex or, anything in vagina for SIX WEEKS. Well, at 2 Weeks, 6 Days Postpartum, I ended up having sex with my Husband. Now, I'm sure there are a lot of people judging me but, my Husband begged me, made me feel guilty. This might be too much information but, he wanted me to do "other things" to please him, if I did not want sex. Ever since I got Pregnant this time, I did not feel like that type to give him "other things" so, with him begging, and begging, I eventually gave in, told him he has to pull out. Yes, I know that is NOT the best way for birth control.. but, it is what it is... we've done it before and, it was successful. Anyways, we got too caught up in the moment, he never pulled out.... yes, stupid decision..
Not soon after, I started having pain where my incision is (I had a C-Section, baby was big 9lbs, 9oz) the pain would subside when I'd take an ibreprofan. Anyways BEFORE we had sex, the bleeding was getting lighter, and the pain was about gone. Then we had sex ONE TIME, and the bleeding is heavier than what it was but, not too much heavier. I had headaches, pain urinating, fever, chills, loss of appetite, etc.
Yesterday, I became 4 Weeks Postpartum and, I had enough with the pain so, I went to the nearest hospital, the Doctor was RUDE! She felt my stomach and everything she touched, I said "ow" she would touch my gallbladder, my appendix, my intestines, etc, I would say "ow". She made a remark saying "everything things? Which one is it." So "so your diagnosis is your gallbladder, appendix, intestines, Bowles, etc" then, the one Nurse came in and asked what the verdict was and the Doctor goes "apparently everything". I thought that was rude...
She then did a pelvic exam and, turns out, I have a uterus infection. I've read scary things online so I had questions. I asked he Nurse if I'd be able to have kids, she said yes! She said the Doctor can explain it better between what I have and the most alarming one, where you can't have kids. So, I asked the Doctor and, the Doctor was having like a pissy attitude. As if she thought I was trying to have a baby because she said, "you don't need another one right now, you just had a C-Section" well no dip Sherlock. I'm worried about my future because I have two boys and, I want a daughter or at least one more child! She kept saying "it depends it depends" shaking her head, like she was getting irritated. So, then I was in so much pain, I asked her besides my antibiotics, can she send me home with some ibreprofan because it seems to help me she said "no, you can get those over the counter"
She was so mean like, yes, I did what I did, was not a smart decision... but, I learned my lesson. But, just because I did that ONE MISTAKE, you are not going to give me a prescription for a NON-Painkiller? It's just Motrin! They made me seem like I was a drug addict as well... I told her I don't have money for ibreprofan that, my insurance would cover it and she still wouldn't give me one!
So, tell me what YOU think or would do about this Doctor.. did anyone else on here have a infection in uterus and be able to have kids in the future?
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@jesslee603, she said my uterus seems fine and it's nothing major but, how did they tell you had a tear? I'm scared I won't be able to have kids anymore... my heart longs for one more or a daughter.
doctors can be complete assholes and they get away with it because they are doctors. I'm so sorry you had to be on the receiving end of that bull, don't get down on yourself to much about having sex to early, it is what it is and you are not the only woman who has been in that position I promise you, there's no point feeling bad emotionally when you feel so shitty physically. You did the right thing going to the hospital and it was highly unprofessional and immature of that doctor to have said those things, was probably having an off day and took it out on the first vulnerable patient they could, I hope you feel better soon ❤
Be careful. After I had my staples removed after my 3rd c-section, 6 months ago, I had a tear & they used liquid nitrogen to close it & oh boy did it burn. Just a friendly heads up. Take it easy momma! 💗
For one, I would call the hospital and ask to file a complaint. She was beyond mean and nasty. Then I would call your obgyn and ask to be seen asap and explain EVERYTHING that happened there and how you're feeling.
i would call the hospital management and complain.
Infections can cause scar tissue in the uterus which in turn can make it harder for the embryo to implant in the uterus, but generally that's with chronic or re-occuring infections. The doctor technically can't tell you whether or not you can have kids bc she won't know if you have any complications from the infection until it subsides. That's like someone with a broken arm asking when will it heal. Everyone is different. But I honestly doubt 1 infection will prevent you from becoming pregnant in the future especially if she told you everything looked fine during your check up. As far as the rudeness, as someone else mentioned you can call the facility and report it to their patient care services and in the future if you're in the hospital and you feel that you're being mistreated ask for a patient advocate or equivalent because there is no excuse for you to be treated like crap on top of being sick and worried.