Maybe you should ask him if he's sincere about you

I don't even know how to bring it up. @tatianag704,

Out of everything why that site??? Doesn't make sense. I can totally relate to you. It's not a good feeling. Once you know what his intentions are, your perspective changes about him and his motives.

I'm all about equality and respect. Same thing happened to me with my boyfriend but he wasn't searching up his ex. He was on a dating where we met and he said that he was basically looking for "friends" which I don't even believe at all!

Exactly. @tatianag704,

You wouldn't have to do that if he kept it real.

He gets really really mad when I snoop through his stuff. Because I told him I'd stop and I did for the most part I do it once in awhile like once every two weeks or when I feel something is up. I don't do it constantly anymore but he just hates it because he feels it invades privacy and blah blah @tatianag704,

That's not fair that he's doing that.

Just talk to him hon. Tell him how you feel. You need to be happy too

So what, that doesn't give him the right. They're not together, so therfore he needs to move on.

I know.... it just kinda makes me insecure. Am I overthinking this @tatianag704,

He's the father of your child

I agree.... I really do. But she was his first love.. and whether he admits it or not I don't think he's fully over it and that really upsets me because a ring means something more than that you know ? @tatianag704,

Don't feel like you're smothering. You shouldn't feel bad. He made his bed, he needs to lay on it.

But that doesn't mean that he can search up his ex. Exes are in past. He needs to realize that it's about his family not an ex. Men will never get it

I'm trying really hard to trust, and to forgive what's happened in the past. I want to give him a chance at being a father and having family. I did get really crazy about girls for the longest time but also he wasn't trustworthy either. I am trying not to let it bother me so much but now that I'm getting closer to my due date I'm getting so clingy and I can tell he's scared as hell and he's pulling away a bit and it makes me so damn insecure because I feel I need him right now more than ever and I'm just smothering him I can't help it I feel so bad..... @tatianag704,

You have every right to check up on him. You're watching out for myself