My boyfriend just got a new night job because I will be going on maternity leave soon and it stinks because I miss him so much. I need to find ways to pass the time without him here. I know our 3 year old misses him alot too. Anyone have any advicw on how to pass the time or not feel so needy and alone?
@jessica.deshields your welcome! Im expecting my second little boy so I know im in for a ride lol but I am so excited for my first to be a big bro to a little bro i think its gonna be the cutest thing ever. Ill be coming to you for advice if I ever need it lol
@momtobetobabyc thank you it means a lot! Im here as well if you ever need to talk:) I for sure hope we can when baby comes! I hope you guys can find family time too♡
@ginamariemostardo, thank you so much ❤️ we are very excited to add a little girl. Those boys are cute but crazy as can be. It's definitely an adjustment for sure but just remember to be supportive.
You're definitely not alone. And yes, just keep reminding yourself that it'll pay off. Maybe you'll be able to schedule some family time when baby comes. I'm here if you ever need to talk. ❤
@js_kidsmom Movies with my son help too..its just hard cause I know he misses his daddy so much.
@momtobetobabyc its so tough isn't it? I just have to keep telling myself that hes doing this for us. I just hate seeing him so tired all the time. Thanks for commenting:) im glad to know Im not alone.
Oh wow that sounds rough too. Thank you fir commenting I guess its something im just gonna have to learn to get used to! You have 3 handsome little boys by the way! Congrats on your little girl♡
I find myself cleaning a lot and finding Netflix useful also. My husband works over night so he sleeps during the day and then goes to work. We are lucky to see him three hours a day.
I'm in a similar situation but this is our first. He works overnight from 2-11 and then during the day from 12-7. Monday through Saturday. We've just been trying to get time in while we can.
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