So Kenneth and I were talking to his mom today. Apparently she plans on flying in for the birth of our baby. I don't…

So Kenneth and I were talking to his mom today.

Apparently she plans on flying in for the birth of our baby.

I don't know how I feel about this. I've seen her with her other grandkids and she doesn't respect their parents or their decisions. I'm worried that if I didn't want her to come over for the first few days that she would take it personally. And that if I did let her over but wanted her to wash her hands she would look at me like I'm being overbearing. I just want things to go MY way with MY kid and not feel judged or like I have to explain myself.

Kenneth is really happy that she wants to come down. She hasn't seemed excited for this baby at all since she found out, and that was upsetting him.

I still have plenty of time to set up boundaries at least.

I know. It's just, we're already the least favorites. We're already "high maintainance" because we actually have boundaries. When his brother and sister-in-law tried to set some, it was a big ordeal. I don't want to be the reason that his mom stops talking to him or something. It's just stupid, but I know he would back me up no matter what.

Ashlea22.04.2017

Мама сына (1 год)

If she doesnt want to follow by your rules for your baby she can leave. It is your child so no matter how she feels about it everything is your decision.

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