Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
3RD UPDATE: What would you do? Ok, so we have these new neighbors they have been there renting the house 2 doors down for about 3 months or so. They have a 2 year old boy, he just turned two. They have asked me to babysit him on multiple occasions, just so happens I've been busy each time. In my mind, they don't know me or anything about me. Barely know my name and they want me to watch their kid because they see I have kids and stay home. Apparently they haven't had any luck with the babysitters they have had. Well his sister just moved in and she had the little boy all morning. I get a text at 11 from the mom asking if I can come get the boy because the sister needs to leave to work on her car?.... I told her I would but was on my way to the store and would be back at 12 and would get him then. So I get back and the sister brings him over. He doesn't know me at all, but he is a very good little boy. I had no problems with him the whole time. So here is my question, I watched him from 12 to 530, the mom texted at 2 and asked how much I told her 10-15 just because I'm nice. If it was me in that situation on such short notice and someone saving my ass to watch my kid I would give them 15-20 if they said 10-15. So the dad picked him up and said the mom would pay when she got home. I just texted and asked her because she's been home since 6 (now it's 930) if she was bring over the money, I was super nice about it. She said her husband had to go to the bank, so he went and came back and then she texted me that it was on the front porch. They gave me $8. Like really? I just find this super weird. Would you be kinda thrown back by this also? I definitely learned my lesson and won't be "helping out" anymore. I just thought this was nuts.
i am so mad my kids daddy got my son his covid vaccine with out asking me an tellin me he tryna see they approve it for pora 😡 is y i keep dem from him
Literally have no friends or pt people to text haha every friend turned their backs on me or just don't get my pregnancy or SO issues and I kudu keep to myself. 🙄
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Mary Love·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@nikbutts757, I wish I wasn't dealing with it.
Nicky Butts·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
@manismommy1207, oh honey that is so much! I can't even imagine how you feel. I can't believe you are dealing with this. I'm so sorry.
Mary Love·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@nikbutts757, yes. I went and filed for custody Monday. I just have to wait for my court date. He will not show up because he is a fugitive and on the run. He was messing with mom while we was dating so I'm in a messed up situation. I can't get over it because I feel so disrespected and disappointed in both of them. I'm trying to move away from where we are so I can get my kids away from them. I have a daughter but her dad is more supportive of me and my decision. As I write this I'm crying because it hurts so much.
Nicky Butts·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
@manismommy1207, I'm really so sorry because I know your story and frustration. Same scenario for me expect he was involving my Dad and my Dad always sided with him. That part hurt the most. I can't tell you to get over it. I can only tell you that it will get better. It will take time. It's been 11 years since my son saw his father and he's 13 now. It's not easy but it's not impossible. Every time you get frustrated pray. Not about your frustration but pray and thank God for your son and tell God how awesome he is. Tell him how blessed you are to have your son. That gives you something else to focus on while you are dealing with it. Do you plan to involve the courts?
Mary Love·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@nikbutts757, I'm sorry that this is long. I've been dealing with a lot from him and it's messed up that I had to deal with it. I'm a nice person I don't deserve any of the crap I get from everybody.
I don't expect anything from him. It's just that he says that he wants to be in his life but turns around and acts like he doesn't care about him. My son doesn't know him. I'm getting blamed for the reason his father is acting like this because I won't let my son go with him anywhere. My close family and friends know why I won't let my son go with him. He just keeps spreading lies and it's irks my nerves. I'm sitting in my room like why is my mom texting me asking why I haven't answered text messages from him when he hasn't text me at all. Then I'm like why does he keep putting her in between everything that has happen between us. It's a lot more behind this. I'm just done with him and his bull@$!!. He has a older son and he is barely in his life.
He is deadbeat and he will never do anything for my son.
Nicky Butts·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
I'm sorry that you are dealing with this. I dealt with this also with my oldest son. I suggest that you stop expecting things from him, then you won't ever be disappointed. When he does stuff it will be a surprise. You are giving him too much of your energy. He has too much control over your emotions. He doesn't deserve your emotions baby girl. Things will get better. Take back control.