maurajr
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I am going threw a really hard time juggling both kids an two year old and 9 month old the house work laundry and me and my husband I feel like I am falling apart I am so tired I feel so alone and my house is never clean it just gets worse my husband is tired of me asking for help he said it's his weekend all I do is make him work. He says I am a bad mom but I am trying so hard I am not making him do my work I am so overwhelmed I am falling apart
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Thinking of days as "my day" is incredibly selfish. He gave up his right to do what he wants on his days off when he decided to have kids. In that situation I'd totally drop the kids off at his work on one of his days off and tell him "it's my weekend now. I'm sure you'll manage doing it all."
Do you have any other family that lives near you? Or maybe you can hire a nanny once a week to help out?
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I'm married & expecting... but I have similar problems with keeping house clean from time to time sounds like you guys are both dealing with a lot of pressure take the next off day to sit down n talk to one another. Compromise compromise compromise lol!!! He'll make a cleaning chart if you have to
Thank you so much you guys are so silly you just put a smile on My face
I did but everyone is happening to be moving away he got mad and took off. I been at home crying hopeless I just wanted someone to hear me out thank you
You need to relax ! And set ur foot down if you work too that mean shit need to be 50/50 ! That's how I am my husband enjoys playing so I take his PlayStation ! I give no fucks ! And if the house is dirty fuck it ! Your babies come first and if that means a dirty house then so be it I use paper plates and cups as much as possible I give no fucks ! Put ur foot down
Thinking of days as "my day" is incredibly selfish. He gave up his right to do what he wants on his days off when he decided to have kids. In that situation I'd totally drop the kids off at his work on one of his days off and tell him "it's my weekend now. I'm sure you'll manage doing it all."
Do you have any other family that lives near you? Or maybe you can hire a nanny once a week to help out?