I need advise: so Friday me and my boyfriend had a heated argument out in public so he's walking a half a block ahead of me. I see him on the phone ranting about something and I can only assume that he's on the phone with one of his friends about the fight we just had. So he hangs up the phone and he's walking back towards me and I ask him who was he just talking to. He first said to mind my business then later tells me he was on the phone with my step father about something unrelated. So I check our phone records today bcz it still bothered me about who he was talking to and I was so sure it was NOT my step father. It turns out I was right. It was exactly who I thought it was a female friend of his. This pisses me off to the max. How do I go about handling this situation. Should I leave it alone or bring it up.
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I would leave it and just never trust his word again
I wouldn't let it go ... he lied !
Why hide it if he ain't doing something wrong ?
I've caught my baby daddy cheating twice !!! ( talking to other females )
If he can't tell you straight up he was on the phone with a female he's hiding something girl !
Found out my baby daddy was telling these girls we broke up cause I was unfaithful ( which I never was )
I called all 3 of them and told them wassup then talked to him about it !!!
Oh and him lying about it would have been a big no no in my book
If it's bothering you I'd bring it up. And why th he ranting to some female that's not his wife..🤔personally that would throw warning flags my way
Oh hell no!!! That's what a wife is for. He's calling other females right after y'all argue there's a high chance she's comforting him. If it was me I would be so pissed...
Kenneth used to have a female friend that he would complain to every time we had a fight. The thing she didn't get was that we didn't fight all the time, she just heard about it when we did. So eventually, he couldn't even text her to chitchat. Because she would start complaining and telling him to break up with me.
He learned his lesson and they're not friends anymore.
@brendamariex3, thanks the biggest problem IS the lying.
@mrs.n2014, I have more of a problem that he lied about it to my face when I asked
@mrs.n2014, but if I do that male or female he complains and starts a fight. On top of that I don't know this girl but talks to her every day. I don't believe he's cheating with her but I just want him to be fair.
It is a lie you are concerned about and bring it up! Be honest forward and gentle about it and set healthy boundaries. You guys should be a team and that means fully honest to one another even if it stings. 🙂