So my husband (bless his soul) and I went to Walmart and I found a play mat that I wanted to g t for our son. So we got it... right before we go to check out my husband says we don't need to spend the money and we put it back. Fast forward a couple of days and he buys a boat. Now he is going in half on the boat with his friend but ever since buying it he has biting things (wood, paint, carpet) to fix it up. And I'm trying not to get aggravated, but I just can't help it. Buy now he has probably spent. Close to 100$ on the stupid boat and the toy I wanted to get Alex was $25. Mommas how would you handle this situation?
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Well we don't use banks. Like the only thing we use the bank for is our car payment and that's it. So everything else we keep in cash (dangerous, I know) but it's how we've always done it and since he works it just goes in his wallet. And yes and no. He told me that he was going to look at a boat and if it was a good one he would buy it. And after that he finally asked if that was okay. And by that point there was no point in saying yes or no. Because he already talked to the guy about price and seeing the boat. I don't care he got the boat. I'm happy he did but at the same time I just don't understand how he justifies it in his head
@beebaby, @andrewsmommy, I would just go buy the mat but unfortunately and fortunately I haven't been back to work since my LO was born. So I'd have to ask him for the money and he'd ask what I was getting. So yeah.... either way I reckon I need to just talk with him about it
Been there one to many times , talk to him and explain how your feeling. Men don't understand sometimes and we need to spell it out for them . Hahaha
I'd talk to him and tell him the exact thing he said to you, you dont need to be spending on things you dont need. And I'd go back and buy the matt lol
Shit I'd be like I need $25 you got a new toy now its time for little man to get one.