@dee_02dee he was great when he was sober, but he did a lot of stupid stuff while drunk, or trying to get drunk. Including taking my last penny to buy alcohol instead of preparing for my son. He cheated while i was literally a room away babysitting to make money because he spent my rent money on beer and other shit. It got bad. That was the last straw. I actually almost had my son 3 months early because of that situation.
@autumnsmomma125 I almost lost it the other day and my best friend called me and she told me i couldn't help him he has to help himself but it's so hard to see him drinking his life away. How do you deal?
I do... he will get drunk and say or do hurtful things. I wish I had some advice on this for you. But I am still trying to get away from my situation. I have tried and tried, he has to want to stop and do it on his own... #feelingstuckandalone
I feel the same sometimes i worry about his health but your friend is right only he can help himself. I just support him when he doesn't drink and i try not to enable him though
@erikasmiles123 I am so sorry to hear you have dealt with this so long. I know you love him and that is why you stick by him. I wish we could help them and save them from ruining their lives and health.
@alvaradojarima thank you so much for your enlightening words of wisdom. You're right. It's in the power of prayer and putting it in the hands of the lord.
Yes I wish but it gets uglier. There is no possible way for me to help him. If you have family or friends I would get out why you can. I have no family or anyone. It is hard. My dad is also a alcoholic.
Naomi Israel ·
Nope... but my step dad of 19yrs was...
Ally·
I did, and so glad I'm not anymore
Dee E·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@embracemthrhd2 my father was when he and my mom were together. It's actually worse now that I am with someone than seeing my father....it's weird.
Dee E·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@allyk.xmommy is that the reason you aren't together anymore?
Ally·
@dee_02dee he was great when he was sober, but he did a lot of stupid stuff while drunk, or trying to get drunk. Including taking my last penny to buy alcohol instead of preparing for my son. He cheated while i was literally a room away babysitting to make money because he spent my rent money on beer and other shit. It got bad. That was the last straw. I actually almost had my son 3 months early because of that situation.
Naomi Israel ·
Right cause its a different point of view
Dee E·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@allyk.xmommy that's very heartbreaking but I am so glad you are out of that situation now.
Ally·
Me too. It went on for WAY to long.
Lauren🖤·
I do
Lauren🖤·
My husband is working on his drinking but he is an alcoholic
Dee E·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@autumnsmomma125 I almost lost it the other day and my best friend called me and she told me i couldn't help him he has to help himself but it's so hard to see him drinking his life away. How do you deal?
Kedra·
Мама дочки-младенца
He's not an alcoholic but he loves to smoke weed n party n shit. It drives me fucking insane. I'm ready to break up with his ass
Amber G·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 12 лет)
I do... he will get drunk and say or do hurtful things. I wish I had some advice on this for you. But I am still trying to get away from my situation. I have tried and tried, he has to want to stop and do it on his own... #feelingstuckandalone
Lauren🖤·
I feel the same sometimes i worry about his health but your friend is right only he can help himself. I just support him when he doesn't drink and i try not to enable him though
Erika·
Мама сына (1 год)
Yes! It is the worst it has been almost 4 years and it does not get better.
Dee E·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@erikasmiles123 I am so sorry to hear you have dealt with this so long. I know you love him and that is why you stick by him. I wish we could help them and save them from ruining their lives and health.
Dee E·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@alvaradojarima thank you so much for your enlightening words of wisdom. You're right. It's in the power of prayer and putting it in the hands of the lord.
Erika·
Мама сына (1 год)
Yes I wish but it gets uglier. There is no possible way for me to help him. If you have family or friends I would get out why you can. I have no family or anyone. It is hard. My dad is also a alcoholic.