So .. this is my second pregnancy . But my son who is 6 is adopted,openly,by some family friends who can't conceive (I was 15). Now that I am expecting again I am worried my son will feel like he is less worthy or unimportant, because I chose to let someone one else be his mother. Should I even be thinking like this now? Or worry about it when he's older? I just don't want him to be sad or hate me for it ☹️
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Yeah.. It's just hard to stay in touch sometimes because we do live separate lives
Especially now since I am trying to get things ready for the new baby
I guess that's why I'm glad he is still really young. I might not have to worry about it just yet
I think as long as you include him and show him the same type of love and affection youll show the new baby there shouldnt be anyjealousy or problems once hes older you can explain to him why you chose adoption for him that way he has an understanding but as long as your there throughout his life i think he will be fine
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
I am 28 weeks and my son is already 3 pounds. I am inducing myself at 37 weeks.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I keep forgetting to take my prenatal. & lately I forget more & more. I used to never forget. I feel like I am harming my son by forgetting & I am so worried 😥
The fact that you're thinking about it means you will make this all come together ok. As your older son grows, he will understand that you were very young when you had him and you made a decision with his best interest at heart. If you keep him connected to your life as you always have, I think you're ok. Include him. Listen to him, and talk to his mom and dad so you can all watch for any changes in his behavior or needs during this time. The fact that you want to be mindful of his emotional needs is a good thing. You are a good mom.