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liz
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Мама четверых детей

Is it okay if i let my 1yr old cry. He's gotten so attach to me. I can't get nothing done at home. I can't even walk a…

Is it okay if i let my 1yr old cry. He's gotten so attach to me. I can't get nothing done at home. I can't even walk a few steps away because he screams and cries. I need to.shower I put him in his hugh chair and he's fine the minute I step in the shower he cries like crazy.. I'm going nuts. I'm crying my husband gets mad because I leave him crying. I tell him if u could stay with him for one day you won't know what to do. Help help has anyone gone throw this??

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momi2b4

liz

Мама четверых детей

@dee_02dee lol you got that right

dee_02dee

Dee E

Мама четверых детей, беременна

@momi2b4 men most definitely have a different perspective on things than we do. We have our maternal instincts and them....they just always think they are right smh. Trust your instincts.

momi2b4

liz

Мама четверых детей

Thank you @dee_02dee I'm trying to make him understand but since he works all day he doesn't see how he is

dee_02dee

Dee E

Мама четверых детей, беременна

@momi2b4 it is very hard when you and you significant other don't see eye to eye when it comes to parenting. Maybe if you talked it over with him if you haven't already and even researching before may help so you can explain yourself on why so he understands that it is for the best.

asiaanddonovanmommy

Chrystal Clark

Yup let him cry he will be okay

momi2b4

liz

Мама четверых детей

@dee_02dee my husband makes Me feel like a bad mom. That I shouldn't let him cry. I've done that a few times. Let him cry but it just makes me more upset that he's being like that.

dee_02dee

Dee E

Мама четверых детей, беременна

@momi2b4 I personally believe it is healthy to leave them crying for a little bit. I did it with my oldest son. My mom hated it but after a while he was fine and didn't cry as much. You don't want baby to be so dependent on you because it will only be worse when they start daycare or school. If the baby is clean and fed he will be just fine while momma takes a shower or does the dishes Jr anything else for the time being. Don't feel like a terrible mom either for it.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?