I need advice. I live in a different state from my parents and family... I live in my boyfriends parents house with our 3 months old, his brother, his parents, and my boyfriend... I've been with my boyfriend for 13 months... The whole time we've been together he hasn't had a job. He's helped his parents out with their new business but never a real job... We fight frequently Beucsse he doesn't think we need our own place... His mom spoils him well both his parents but mainly his mom Beucsse she lost a lot of hears with him as a kid Beucsse of his autistic little brother she focused on him 110% instead of both of them... Up until a week before I had my son I worked my ass off working doubles from 5am til 10pm or midnight... He made the comment last night that when our son is a year old we probably still won't have our own place. What should I do?
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I'd leave, if he doesn't have the desire or motivation he never well. Even if you leave for a month maybe it'll get his butt in gear. Put yourself and that baby first and do what you gotta do.
@rmreed that's what I was thinking of doing but I know if I do it will start a custody thing... I'm either going this week and having my sons last named changed from his to mine... Or waiting to see if he gets in gear if we leave for a bit and if he doesn't then I will change it... He really doesn't do anything with his son either I have to yell at him to hold him so I can shower or eat real fast... He's so dependant on his parents he always says if you need a break give him to mom and dad like no.