No bashing please...so I made some poor choices in my life regarding my oldest daughter. She doesn't…
No bashing please...so I made some poor choices in my life regarding my oldest daughter. She doesn't live with me and her dad has put her thru some shiz. I have talked to her about wanting to come and live with us and she said she wanted to. So we moved into a bigger house so she could have her own room but now she doesn't. So for the passed 7 months I have seen her off and on because she is "busy" with softball and soon to be color guard. Today she texted me telling me that I never text or call her and that I need to make more of an effort to be in her life and supportive. I am always there when she needs me. I call and text all the time. She either never answers or she says she never got it. We live almost 2 hours away now. I'm so frustrated with her she never calls or texts to check on her sisters especially the baby because she has had a lot of medical issues. I just don't know what to do anymore. I try and get her when we are at family's houses but she never wants to come. Every time she is off from school she never wants to come either. I know how it was to want to be with your friends instead of going to the other parents house.
Leah·
Мама сына-младенца
@melamomma3, she is a teenager they don't know what they want in life just yet I think we all made no so smart choices when we were 15. I think just try to be there for her as much as u can and as she gets more mature she will make better choices and decide what she really wants
Brittney Rumsey·
Мама троих детей
@txyogagirl, thanks. I have always been there for her. I think she got really upset when I found out I was pregnant because she never wanted to come over my whole pregnancy.
Leah·
Мама сына-младенца
I imagine that can happen lots of kids get jealous I hear @melamomma3,
Brittney Rumsey·
Мама троих детей
@txyogagirl, I just feel like I'm being pulled in 3 different directions. My oldest in an emotional mess, my middle one is trying to be the Mom sometimes and I secretly thinks she hates me, and my youngest is the sickest one. I have to give my youngest the most attention with all the medical going on with her.
Nikkia A·
Мама четверых детей
@melamomma3 I knw hw u feel. All my kids live with me but my 17 boy is giving me hell right now. I just had a preemie. He stays n his room n has an attitude and bn negative. Sometimes he looks at the baby but u can tell he feels a certain way about me having another child. His dad is nt in his life but my other kids dads r so that makes him feel a certain way. I just kp talking 2 him and tell him i love all them and im going always be there. I give him his space at times. Its hard
Brittney Rumsey·
Мама троих детей
@ashleywilliams1839, thank you. I have always been in her life since day one. She has another sister by me who is 13. They are sorta close. She used to talk to me about everything but lately she doesn't.
Brittney Rumsey·
Мама троих детей
@ashleywilliams1839, she is in therapy and both of us suffer from depression and both on meds. I'm just hoping she will come around and start talking to me again