I have a few discussion questions that aren't meant to disrespect anyone, but more so to understand other's ways of thinking & maybe being more sensitive to them.
Why do people continue to have kids when they are not financially stable, not emotionally stable, or one or both parents are dealing with addiction? Do you think it's fair for the children you have? Do you think it's selfish? Why or why not? Also, if the relationship isn't strong with your partner, why bring more children into the family dynamic? Realistically, do you believe children "only need your love"?
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@beebaby, she didn't let him because he was with me now he's with a whole NOTHER girl and magically she don't like her either and I must admit the girl he's with did nothing to me so idk what's that about but now that he and I aren't together she talks to me and say "oh how's the baby"
@jademarie_x0, if you are living with this person and that person eating at this house and that house and really can't take care of yourself as an adult it's extremely unfair for a child to even have to deal with it
each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.
@jademarie_x0, it is hard but they love you have for you kid will definitely get any woman through it
@beebaby, but he actually does for hers because she has other kids and don't financially take care of any of them but his family actually get mine see them and do what he doesn't as with hers they don't because she has disrespected his mom and grandma so they just don't deal with her and don't see the kid as much but they acknowledge that he has other kids
When it comes to father's who are neglectful to their children and have no interest in being a parent-Its really hard for me to form an opinion on that. I've never experienced it myself but if I'd gotten pregnant by someone who didn't want to be there, I don't think I could mentally go through raising a child by myself. Idk how single moms do it and make it work! Much respect to those that do.
@beebaby, but she's also upset because she feels like his family step in for my son and not hers however she does come with a lot of drama because at one point her and I were not able to communicate in a respectful manner
While I don't think people need millions of dollars to have kids, I don't think it's fair for a child if their parents have trouble even feeding themselves, keeping a roof over their head,etc. before the baby is even conceived. I especially think it's horrible to bring a child into the world if one is struggling with addiction, whether it be a mother or father. & I think saying that you want your kid to have a sibling is just a selfish excuse. How can you raise your child if you're not mentally healthy yourself?
@beebaby, well Dylan brothers mom let me see the boys but she don't let his father see them
@beebaby, agree but some men pick and choose what kid they wanna deal with like my son father treated him like his only child when and I were together but I hated it cuz the status of the parents relationship shouldn't determine the relationship they have with the child smh
I certainly would not have more kids if I couldn't provide financially or physically with Love yes it's selfish to have a child if you guys are on a rocky relationship because I wish my son was able to have his father and I under one roof but I've actually did all I could to give him a family lifestyle yet his father didn't want it so if I still mess with his father from Time to time just having sex I wouldn't want another baby because I'll be a single mother of 2
@beebaby, it's her frfr cuz I took my son to the girl house he's with now the girl MIND her business when he and I get into it and all as I did before