You never realize how emotionally tied you are until your helping someone give birth to their children. Your only able to message them through the app. You cant hear their voice. Youve never seen their face. Yet when it came down to it they turned to you for help. And through the whole thing you felt what they felt even though youve never been through it yourself, you help the best you can while you both wait for the EMTs to get to their house. You feel scared, anxious, and above all loving. A person you dont even know, and you feel like a part of them. The first baby came before the EMT got there...it wouldnt cry but it was breathing. Only slightly but it was breathing. Luckily the EMT gets there not long after, and right before the other babys born.
I will not say who i helped. What i will say though is that i promised her id stay up as long as i can. I want to be there for her. So please help me keep that promise. If anyones awake keep me awake. I want to know the babys are ok.
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Omg. I don't think I saw her post or I would have told her to get to the hospital when her water broke. I don't get on much though. Once or twice a day and that's it. But I'm heading to bed. Let me know when you hear something.
@cajunpeach89 she asked and no one answered her. She asked if she needed to go get checked but no one told her. She waited 2 days. Her water broke 2 days ago and she went into labor sometime yesterday night. Then she messaged me...she kept telling me she was scared. And even though i was just as scared i did my best to keep her calm. She had her first child in her house bc she didnt know weather to get checked out on the 2nd when it first started.
@cajunpeach89 yea. She posted on the 2nd about the problem she messaged me about tonight. The symtoms she was having. It shows 2 likes but no answers...
@cajunpeach89 it says on her profile she was 38 weeks. So they were earlyish but at the same time they were pretty much on time. Mama always told me anyway the babys gonna come when it wants to come.
@cajunpeach89 this is true. I just want the lil one to be ok
I can respect that. I don't bash anyone for not believing. We all have free will for a reason.
@cajunpeach89 i respect everyones views. I really do. My whole family belives in god, so does my husband. Its just me. I have my reasons, but i dont judge anyone else for their views either. The closest i feel to a god is my family members that have passed away. So in times of need i pray to them like i am now.
I definitely believe in God. There are too many miracles that have happened in my life for me not to believe.
@cajunpeach89 thank you. Im just glad the EMT got there when they did. That means the first lil one has a higher chance of making it now. It was still breathing when they got there. I took that as a good sign. I dont belive in god, but right now im praying to my family members that they lil one makes it.
I can understand to an extent. You helped bring those babies into the world. Even if it was just over the app. It still counts. You're a blessing their momma will never forget.
@cajunpeach89 it may sound weird but i feel like her children are my own now. Its hard to explain...but i feel nervous, and worried. I have the urge to hug her, and hold the lil ones. I know it sounds weird, but this had an impact on me that i didnt exspect.
@cajunpeach89 kk. Its only been about 30 mins now and im still nervous. Im constantly looking at the messages waiting for a reply
About 20 mins since the EMT got there. The first baby was born right around 12am eastern time, and the second one was already on its way out
@cajunpeach89 i will. Trust me i want to know. It was bothering me. Part of why i posted this.
I know you have to be anxious to find out how they are. If she doesn't mind, when you do find out post an update.
@cajunpeach89 same here. Thats why i want to stay up and wait for her to message me again
@katiesmiles1 i didnt half know what i was doing. I couldnt count out loud for her. Instead i told her how to focus on counting and breathing. She was due in May but her water broke today. She uses this app, but i want her to be the one that tells everyone about the babys. They are a month early, but im keeping my faith in them being strong.
Omg! Wow. I hope both babies are ok and the mom as well.
@cajunpeach89 i will i promise