Yeah I'd hope so. Yeah I did, she had no one and I stepped up hence why I was in that shitty relationship forever. She needed me to be her only parental figure. Anyways, absolutely not..she listened and respected time outs. There's various ways to punish and correct, you don't have to spank him for everything. I'm not saying you should ever be disrespected so not sure why that point was brought up. I'm done arguing with you over this. Just know there's other options.

@rmreed I don't because I have control over the situation. You raised your exes kid? With no help from anyone? Your child didn't need spanked at all? I don't let nobody test me or disrespect me, especially my son or boyfriend.

Lol beat? I'll try. How will he ever recover from his abusive mother. Maybe he will abuse his wife bc I spank him.. for real? Lmao

You don't read anything I'm saying lol. First off, I said if they're hurting someone else then absolutely the spanking is deserved. Second of all, I just told you I raised my exes kid and we went through this exact stage and I never ever would even dream of hitting her when she rolled over and yeah she rolled over cause they're testing life, testing things. Thats what kids do. She was a WILD child lol, all over all the time but I never once felt crazy or suicidal so let me tell you thats not normal and you should absolutely consult someone if you feel that way. Weird to say but Im here if you ever want to talk, seriously you shouldn't feel like that because of your child.

Yea yea yea stop beating that poor boy

@tired "Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline will drive it far away." Proverbs 22:15 ya, I know jesus too and your liberal shit ain't getting you anywhere

Good day moma youre the mother let me not interfere in your affairs anymore god an his angels watch it all an he will get you better then cps will

So you let your kids just hit others?

@tired would you like their number of my local cps too Lol?

@momma_beffers well give it to me ill report you

@tired ya, if he hurts someone else? I will correct it

@rmreed did I say smacking him for RANDOMLY rolling over? No don't put fucking words in my mouth. I said spank him when he rolls over changing his diaper so he doesn't run around and pee on the couch or rub shit on my carpet and then eat it. Yes, I smack his hand when he hurts someone else, I hope you ladies can control your kids so they know when it's time to be serious and when it's time to play

@momma_beffers it was jus scary when u said SMACKIN

Did I say I like It? You have a 2 month old so stfu lol you don't know and I would LOVE to hear from you in 13 months if you aren't already in a psych ward because your son has literally made you feel crazy and suicidal .

Did I ever say I was against spanking? Nope. So don't put words in my mouth. Hitting a child that young for something like that is down right sad. Sure if he smacked you or someone else, hurt the cat..etc. then yes but randomly hitting him for rolling over? Thats out of control and downright abuse

Inform people you like to hit your child for various reasons? What would be the point of that? Lol grow up and learn what it means to be a parent which includes having PATIENCE.

And if anyone thinks it's abuse I'll message you me address so cps knows where to find me. Lol spanking is not against the law

Yeah I raised my exes kid, so I know exactly what its like. My sons also a boy lol so I do know. I have been there, Id never hit EITHER of them, EVER for simply rolling over and being a child. Im just saying your poor kid.

Roll over and play with me? He knows what a diaper change is and that he needs to have a diaper on before he gets up. @rmreed saves me a bunch of trouble. So unless you have a high energy kid that stays at 100% energy level 8 hours of the day, especially if you have a girl, then u don't know what it's like. My post was is to inform ppl. Walk in my shoes before judging lol

Just feel so bad for him, scared to roll over and play with you lol. Sad honestly.

@rmreed yeah he's being a child now, he's playing now, but not when it's time to get dressed or change his diaper

Classical conditioning? Its a child not a lab project? Ugh i feel bad for that poor baby. Can't even be a kid

@tired it's not abuse, it's classical conditiong, and ya he has stopped flipping over, he may do it once in awhile. State law does not say anything about spanking

Ya, if he rolls over while I'm trying to change his diaper he is trying to fight me so yup I spank him. It's not hard enough to make his butt pink. And 15 months is the same as 1year and 3 months

As I said in my comment hurting others or anything of that nature, okay a spanking may be appropriate but not rolling over during a diaper change. Thats out of control @rhealize

I never once said anything against spanking, at all. I said thats not the right reasons and you should never threaten your child with physical altercations so relax. To each their own but there's no reason to spank a child that young for simply doing child like things. @rhealize

@rmreed I'm not talking beating the child, good grief. I'm talking about a swat on the butt over pants and a diaper. And yes. I threaten them with that.
Picture this. You're out at the park with your child and he decides to try running into the road. You stop him, tell him firmly, no. He does it again. You tell him no again. He thinks it's a game and keeps trying. Are you going to just keep up the pattern and let him keep thinking it's a game when you know threatening him with a spank will work?
Imagine your child playing with other kids and starts pushing them around and hitting them. You put him in a time out or take him home, but the next time you're out the behavior starts right back up again. Are you going to try the same method as last time, or give him a swat on the butt?
Spanks are NOT abuse. Spanks are discipline.
Are we baring their butts and beating them with a belt? Hell no!
Are we tired, frustrated mother's just getting to get our kids to listen and nothing else seems to work? Yes. It happens.
How hard do you think we're hitting our children?
I don't believe for one second you've never swatted your kid on the butt for misbehaving while you're especially tired. I've never met a mother who hasn't.
A one year old will absolutely understand a spank. Sometimes a spank is the only thing they'll understand. If you've got one of those well behaved children where simply saying no to them puts an end to it, then that's great. Good for you, mama.
I don't. And I'd rather not be that mom who's watching her children be monsters while she just sits there begging them to stop because she's afraid of spanking them.

Ummm.... not okay.... babies roll over because they're BABIES. They like to play and move. I get a light slap on the hand if he tries to hit other people but damn, you're taking it WAY too far. Your poor baby...

Or is he 1 year an three months which is whats on the profile

Damn n now that ive looked at the post again in utter shock it says ALMOST 16 months hes only 15 then wow mom way to go...

Hes 6 months younger then my lil guy an hes so little an cute kinda like a baby still thats stumbling around tryin to walk like bambi lol i dont have the thought to hit him an my three year old either or ma five year old, i came from a family where all they did was hit, everything warded physical discipline
(physical abuse) we were all girls me ma sis an ma nieces we were always hit so i hate it now to the point to where as my kids hardly ever closer to never get hit or whooped smacked ect

Ive seen momas smack their child n it is indeed a SMACK im like that shit hurt me hell

Thats alotta smackin but ok, it takes me like a month or more to "smack" i mean pop my ten year old let alone my younger kids. When my child was little like that i wasnt triggered to smackk them id give them what ever they were reachin for which is usually why theyre are tryin to get away or theyre jus playing with u moma... try not n be so harsh on him hes still little n by state law SMACKING a person that young isnt permissible... then blasting it on the social app no no no

You spank him for being a child and rolling over?? What in the world? Hurting other people or anything of that nature makes perfect sense but spanking him for rolling and simply being a child is way too much and honestly borderline abuse. And @rhealize why would you ever need to "threaten" your child with putting your hands on them? Geez.

Sometimes a smack on the hand or the butt is needed. A lot of times only once. Soon as they know what it feels like, it's a perfect threat for next time 😂