So what does everyone else think should a man take time to play and take care of his kids after working 10 hours a day…

@theinkedmommy, idk what the problem is when we got together he cleaned he helped with kids everything now he doesn't do anything

Mine works from 6am-6-7pm, when he gets home he immediately showers and watches/holds our 7m old while I cook dinner. He only really watches him an hour ir so before it's my turn again but my boys nap and bedtime gives me some relief. Weekends tho? MY time to catch up on rest!!!

Guys are dumb. I just don't get it.

@amandacn, that's what my husband thinks he has the job So I should take care of everything at the house alone with no help like right now he doesn't care I'm laying in bed in pain all he is doing is being an ass now because. I said we aren't doing anything and I told him he doesn't care at all and he just said just like you don't care about my needs like wtf

@mrs.bowe, @beebaby, you can rant lol I agree with you shit isn't right my husband thinks me staying at home and taking care of kids makes it to where I should worship the ground he walks on cuz he does everything for us he doesn't do much lol and he thinks being a stay at home mom isnt a job I wish I wish I could take his job and he could have mine for a day he would be pulling his hair out crying lol and lol tell me about it I'm lucky if I can shower alone at all and some days I just say forget it and go to sleep and I will get a shower the next day lol @ashleywhite, your right he should want to I have said this to him before goes in one ear out the other

Pathetic" guys love to have sex an make babies but do hardly nothin to take care of them

My fiance works 8-9 hours a day and gets pissy when I want him to take Grace when he gets home. I have school work to do and I like making dinner to have time for myself. But he's the one with a job so I need to have her constantly.

Yes I agree

He should want to. It shouldn't be a chore to play with your children. Mom or dad. It's a blessing for both of you. A child needs to feel wanted and loved by both parents no matter how long your day was.

@lae1988, not these dirt bags, i dont know what their parents taught there ass if anything at all 🙄

@beebaby, shoot with in ten hours he probably got three, two 15m ones an one 30mins, sss an depending on his job he may be relaxed damn near his whole shift.... grrrr guys make me sick i wish i was a fucking college/workin virgin ugh

@raquely, I thought that's how men are supposed to be wanting to spend time with their kids after getting off work and not seeing them all day 10 hours a day

Im sick of guys an their dumb ass outlooks on life an how us woman should jus be damn near slaves have the kids raise the kids clean after them and the kids cook for them and the kids lay with their weak sex havin ass an end up pregnant an have the kids clean the house shop for groceries and other stuff go to doc appts sign all paperwork do the school enrollment an so on my god we get fuckin tired exhausted an stressed to goddamn im sorry for ranting but these subjects really piss me off because these guys are lazy POS yea u work but really even work isnt as hard as being a stay at home house wife/mother

@beebaby, lol I don't get any I'm either cleaning or taking care of kids or cleaning or taking care of dogs or you know I sit down I watch cartoons my 3 year old is non stop all day long I'm wore out by 8 I am ready for bed now but if I lay down before him or without my husband yea he won't like it because then that means he has to put my 3 year old to bed and bring dogs inside and lock up everything and that's even to hard for him

@mrs.bowe, I agree if I wanted to do it alone I would and I have to ask or tell him when to pick up our 10 month old or when to do something it's ridiculous he should want to do it naturally since we had kids but nope it just doesn't come to a man like it does a women @raquely, @rhealize, @beebaby, @wonder_mommie89, I agree he can have an hour to do to himself if he wants but to just sit on the couch and not do anything if he isn't gonna help me clean or anything when he comes in he can atleast keep kids out from under me and give me a break

Shit obviously those ten hours didn't do nothin to him because hes still awake sooo yea he needs to atleast tend to the lil ones in my opinion ugh guys think they work an thats the end like if i was gonna do it alone I wouldn't have had them or this many

I think have a hour or half hour to himself then take time to play with the kids

I think a little of both.

My husband works 12 hour days and takes a half hour for himself when he gets home, but then he spends the rest of the night with the boys until bed time.