I don't know why it bothers me so much that my boyfriend makes a big deal out of doing stuff for me when i ask, i barely do. Occasionally when im tired or just finished cleaning and he's on his way outside to smoke a cigarette or whatever ill be like can you get my water from the fridge or bring me back a bowl of cereal, hes all "you can get up ill walk with you to the kitchen" cause he's already on his way out. Im nine months pregnant and i still manage to pick up after him and our five year old daughter. Im constantly doing dishes, laundry, everything. Then he asks me to get him something and make him something, Idk it's annoying.. he says the im pregnant and tired thing is a excuse women over use.
I dealt with the same thing. I decided to stop doing everything before the baby came, let shit pile up so they can see how much we do, refuse to make him stuff because he won't do it for you. It helped a lot and I noticed once the baby came and I was preoccupied that when I occasionally asked for something he'd actually do it
That's why sometimes i would just like for them to care the baby for at Least couple hours so they can feel the pain
I would raise cane man id really dare him to say that shit again see how much of his shit gets done o baby you dont have boxers tough shit o baby you hungary o well sucks for you id be sooooo petty