I hate the fact that God has blessed me with a beautiful daughter and is soon to bless me with the birth of my handsome son. But he gave me a pretty crappy kids dad. He breaks up with me after 9 yrs while I'm 7 months pregnant. We still live together until my son is born. I was on bed rest but he never helped me with anything not even our daughter. Our daughter is stuck to me like glue. She loves her daddy but won't stay with him bc she wants to be with me. It's sad bc I'm scared to the fact that once I have our son and I move, my kids really won't see him unless I bring them to him

And I told him I'm not ups fedex or the US Postal service. That he needs to man up. He's 41 and has a 20 yr old son and an 18 yr old daughter. I should have seen the light and paid attention to how he was with them. Don't get me wrong he loves his kids he is there for them and takes care of them financially. But he thinks that's it. Like I buy the diapers I don't have to change them. He has said that's what being is mom is. I was ready to smack the shit out of him. I'm like then what is a dad. Someone who leaves at anytime of the day when they want don't tell you where they're going or who they're with. Stays out all hours of the night. Sometimes doesn't come back home. Always sitting around on the phone but they have a pass code but won't tell you it. Then when a female calls you at 7 months pregnant and asks you questions like are you still seeing him and are you really pregnant. And says she's been seeing him for almost a year. And he gets up and takes the phone and hangs it up. And tries to make me think I'm wrong for answering questions. Sorry I've already been having the feeling and asking him if there was someone else. So I'm going to talk to the girl when she calls. Then he gets up and leaves and calls me saying I think we should break up. After 9 yrs and him begging me to have his kids. And I never could then it finally happens and you drop me at 7 months pregnant. Seriously. And he still says he doesn't know who she was. I'm not stupid. She can have his dumb ass.