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Stacey Jones
Stacey Jones
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (23 нед.)

I know I have to get this off my chest and find a therapist fast, but I'm becoming detached from this pregnancy. In the…

I know I have to get this off my chest and find a therapist fast, but I'm becoming detached from this pregnancy. In the beginning I was overly excited to be pregnant again and my significant other felt the same way. Fast forward to February, and our relationship has changed. We barely talk and when we do and I have something to say he's always cutting me off and expect me to listen to what he have to say. It's a problem when I cut him off so I just ignore him. He changed his work shift to 3:30pm-11:30pm so that he can have weekends off and that leaves me with absolutely no help in taking care of the household and running errands. Add to it I'm working full-time and only getting 2.5-3 hours of sleep a night. I haven't had much of a appetite to eat and I'm only eating so that I don't pass out sick. I've stopped drinking water and now I'm on the brink of dehydration almost everyday. We barely talk and whenever he's off work I find stuff to do so that I don't have to be around him. He make my skin crawl and every time I think about me having to deal with him for the next 18 years I cry. I want to be happy and blessed about this pregnancy but there's nothing to be happy about right now. I've even went and bought the stuff that we agreed to go half on and I still haven't seen his half of the money yet. I've spend my entire Refund on paying my credit card debt down and everything so far for this baby. I have no support from him whatsoever and I'm tired of feeling like this. I don't want to get out of bed in the morning but I know I have to do that my daughter can go to school and I can work to pay our bills and take care of her. I feel so trapped right now and feel like my life is over.

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nena901

Katrina Montgomery В ожидании первенца

:-( That is a lot. We hit hormone lows and so does our partners. Hopefully these feelings are temporary. You two really need to talk.

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