Hey everyone! I'm kinda in need of some advice. So I'm pregnant again and of course they tested me…
Hey everyone! I'm kinda in need of some advice. So I'm pregnant again and of course they tested me for all kinds of stuff including stds at my ob. Prior to being tested there I got tested at the hospital two weeks earlier and everything was all good. No stds. So when I get a call from my obs office saying I have TWO stds I was distraught! The only possible way this could happen is if my husband cheated on me, because I haven't been with anyone else for 3 years and when I was pregnant with my son last year I had nothing! How can one test say no and another one say yes 2 weeks apart? And my husband and I haven't had sex during that two weeks? And I've never had an std in my life! I'm always careful! At least before I started having kids with my husband. I'm just so nervous and confused 😰 my husband swears up and down that he never cheated but what am I supposed to think? He got tested yesterday and I got tested again today. So I guess we'll see.
China·
Oh my goodness! I was going to say he needs to get tested but I just read that he did. Someone's been cheating. They don't just come from nowhere. I think it is very selfish to go out and cheat on your spouse and not only that but to bring back an std. That's horrible. I'm sorry.
Anna·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (10 нед.)
I know! I don't know what to think right now! I definitely didn't cheat or I wouldn't be putting this out there lol but I don't want to think he did either! I'm just so confused. Hopefully the second test was a mistake @junesmommy_15,
China·
If the test comes back that you do indeed have an std and you truly didn't step out, your husband has cheated. Sorry to say. Hopefully it was just a mistake. A bad one but I would rather it be a mistake.
Anna·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (10 нед.)
Thanks, I hope so too. But it just is causing us to blame each other :( @junesmommy_15,
China·
@kharvell18845 Right. But you'll know if he's lying and he will too. If he has cheated, he hasn't forgot. You know you haven't so it'd be him.
Ashley White·
Мама дочки-младенца
Yikes! Well there is such thing as a false positive std test so just remember that! Try not to be at each other's throats until you know for sure. I kinda feel like he wouldn't agree to get tested if he was cheating.... so try to think innocent until proven guilty. Keep us posted!!
Anna·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (10 нед.)
Yea you guys are right. I'm trying to stay calm. But not succeeding lol I'll let you guys know when we get the results! @ashleywhite, @junesmommy_15,