I'm about to watch some porn now lol

I think it's totally normal... hell I watch porn and he watches porn and sometimes we watch it together

My husband does it all the time. I don't mind when he watches it I watch it with him most of the time

I hate it my fiancé does it when I'm sleeping as well. He also had pictures of naked woman on his phone that he would look at. It killed me he won't stop watching it but he hides it very well. It bothers me more that he hides it than anything else. I have such a low self esteem that the woman he looks at I will never ever be and that is what kills me. It's hard. But again to each his own.

Everyone is different. For me, I have fairly negative feelings towards porn and the fact that it creates a pretty clear cut and unrealistic image of how women and men should act and be sexually in society. Sexuality and sex is such a subjective spectrum that there isn't one way to do it but most porn (not all) sees it as objective. Obviously for many people it's not that serious but I was really against my hubby watching it in the beginning of our relationship. I'd walk in on him watching women who looked nothing like me or anyone I could ever be and didn't even do things that I would do. Lol we would fight about it ALL the time. Eventually I think he got sick of me bringing it up and getting so emotional about it. Now he only masturbates to me if he needs anything to look at. Months later he admitted how much better he felt sexually after he stopped watching artificial movies to get off and actually took time to enjoy himself. But sexuality is very subjective. So it's all about how you both feel and view sex and porn in the relationship. I totally understand how it bothered you though. & there are many other women and men who feel the same ☺️

Yea I feel you !!!

I did had an ex that we would have this issue

But more cuz he got so into porn it affected our sexual life he preferred porn than me! And he wanted to have the nasty way out of this world sex with huge horrible dildos omg it was too much for me, I would understand being sexy dirty in some ways but idk it was too much for me!

I thank God my husband thinks like me and we respect each other in that area!

We think it's disrespectful !

We had a talk about it and well we are good!

Hopefully everything works out for you girl, the thing is that it's your relationship and your feelings no one can tell you how to feel or if it's wrong or good each relationship it's it own world and you creat the best of it, if he loves you then he'll respect you and try ... yes maybe men have a different mind from us but there's something called respect !!

Good luck !

It wouldn't bother me, my boyfriend does the same thing, I ended up telling him that we should watch it together sometimes when I was pregnant

@viiviian.aiide yeah the girl he was watching was sexy 😂 but it did kinda hurt my feelings since I do have low self esteem 😢 ugh

My opinion I find it disrespectful!!!

But to each and own everyone thinks or feels different!!!

He probably didn't want to wake you and was feeling ok the mood. Totally okay though.

I just walk back and close the door and started recapping everything I saw lol started to put pieces together 😂

Thanks everyone I'll talk to him about it.. Im not mad at him I'm just in shock that I caught him & didn't know what to say at the moment 😕

Porn is just videos, it's not like he's ever going to meet those people or anything. He's a human, of course he finds other people attractive. I don't see anything wrong with it.

Personally, I think it's natural. There's nothing wrong with it and he was probably super embarrassed about it. Maybe it's something you should BOTH talk about? I don't think you should be upset ☺️

Yeah I'm just in shock and I ended up kicking me out 😲 ugh I didn't know how to react to 😢@aliakr

My ex would do the sAme, but it's just reality instead of physically cheating

Eh. It wouldn't bother me all guys are pigs... they never stop