@abelsmama16, I kind of want a 7lb baby to see if I will tear. I tore with my daughter. In my family those who have 7lb and up babies don't tear and those of us who have babies less than 6lbs tear.
@exoticyuri, she said he's big for 20 weeks but not to worry because all babies grow at a different date after 20 weeks. She said he might not end up being a big baby since I don't deliver big babies.