That's the thing I don't get they gave me magnesium for high bp and there rule is u you can't have your baby alone someone needs to be with you do to possible complications for that.. so my mother in law stayed the next day my mom was on her way with my step dad to go to races like 3 hrs away

@lov34e, I agree with @twinmommabellahali, grandma needs to come to u. She doesn't have her priority straight if she thinks u should come to her. My mom lives 4 hr and comes once a month and came The day I have birth when she had no warning bc I was over due. My dad and step mom live 2 hr away and try to come every other week or so even if it's just for 1 hr visit. Neither grandparent has gone more than 4 weeks with out seeing him and we have never gone to them except once to my dads for Christmas but after Christmas. Her not meeting ur in laws sound weird.

You just gave birth, you shouldn't have to visit anyone. They're supposed to visit you. Don't let her guilt trip you. She will eventually come.