And that's what my guy though. He thought I just sitting around all day till I left him there and took my time coming back. I had to go do something for my oldest girl school but even if you step out to go the store. Take your time. Give him a list around the time for her to eat. So don't change her, feed her and give her a nap. Leave that all up to him and when you there as hard as it will be.. try not helping him when he has her. Some guys think "I worked when I get home I get a break" they view the baby or kids as your job because they work outside the house... being a father is not part of the job you get to choose you want to go to or be involved in. It's a must. You don't come home and get to take a time out. You share the load

@victoria.s.ragland, yes hopefully cause he tells me in his days off is not hard taking care of her but it is without no help it's easy cause I'm there with him helping

Your welcome. I hope it works out 😊

@victoria.s.ragland, thank you 😊

I understand where u are coming from. It's hard for him to really understands unless he lives it for a while and even then he won't understand but he'll have an idea. I was going through the same thing and still kind of am. I finally got a few hours out and that was to the library. I pumped some milk and walked and took my time. Came back 5 hours later and he was hugging me asking me what did I need and he's sorry that he didn't get it and I'm the greatest and never to leave the house again lol. That was only 5 hours. Wait for a vacation time of the day he's off and go take some time for you. Even if u take yourself to eat at a taco place. Take your time and don't help him out at all. They don't get it. They say they work but they are still getting a moment to breath, breaks, to socialize, and down time even if it's in the car on the way back. Baby's and kids have no pause and when it's your like 24-7 everyday and your now trapped with nothing for you... you juggle them and him but where is you.. it's tiring and depressing. Love them all but you feel like your slowly losing you. Hang in there mom