So my ex doesn't want to be involved or even meet out daughter. Should I message his mom and let her…

If you think that's best then do it if you're okay with them being part of her life then go for it

I agree with @maverickandjosiah060516

I would just wait and let them reach out themselves.

@valarie_angel i would if it were me, seems like a mature thing to do.

I would wait if they made the effort then I would allow it if they didn't I would just let it be.

I agree, I would wait. If they want to be involved they'll make it clear. Enjoy your mommy daughter time and if they want to be apart of her life then they will. Just keep the door open 💜💜

I would definitely NOT wait. You have no idea what lies he's feeding them. I'd reach out and just let them know that they are welcome in your little ones life. Get to them, and let them know you're nice and welcoming, so they don't have a reason not to believe you.

I really want to. I have never met my father or his side of the family. I don't want my daughter to grow up with questions like I did. I've never even met my ex's family so it just makes me nervous to blindly contact them.

Maybe there is a reason why you haven't met his family being this far along in pregnancy..I understand where you are coming from tho best of luck with your situation 💕

@valarie_angel, I agree with @jennatess. You never know what they've been told or if they think you're not interested in having a relationship. If you at least put it out there that they have the option to be in your daughter's life, the rest is on them.