Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Keep the baby or Abortion....... I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in abortions and he said he would stay with me if I decide to keep it. But I scared he might leave. Should I keep the baby that I've always wanted and might not ever have one or have in abortion, know I have to live with the pain for the rest of my life and what till we are both ready? Please HELP :-(
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
I need to vent I'm so tired of this man I swear if we were married right now I would bury his ass. So I'm trying to get dress and my son is coming off the bed mind you this house is wood floor and wood every thing in this bedroom. Well this fool I call my fiancé was watching my child come off the bed and just watch him fall back off the edge hitting his head on the hard wood floor and when I pick him up trying to calm him down. He wants to get mad at me because I won't pass him MY crying son please. I'm so tired man he don't get it. I hate sitting in this house and just cooking and cleaning this is not I love Lucy my nigg. Then like he didn't even by my engagement ring I bought my own ring like tf... I'm tired of his complaining ass. I can't do this anymore I'm trying for the sake of my unborn child but I think I was ment to be single. Ugh I'm stuck I don't know what to do. If this is what it's going to be like when we're married I don't want it. HELP ME !!!!
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Amber Bushee·
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whaaat girl text me, that isn't right, I just saw this
Becca S.·
You're welcome.
Elizabeth Spears ·
@desirechild, thank you
Nadenka·
It's a blessing! If you already love it then you will do the right thing and listen to your heart
Congrats hun
adorable jasmine·
@ jcbaby love it talk to get for me money wise god will provide I had my first at 17 years and his dad was supportive true it all and he wasn't working for plenty but we make sacrifices and bring up our child
Elizabeth Spears ·
@jcbaby, thank you.
Jillian·
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@elizabethspears1998 im 18 too and if you need somebody to talk to you can send me a message. I know what youre going through 💓
Jillian·
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@elizabethspears1998 dont let anybody try and convince you to get rid of your baby. He or she is a miracle and completely yours. You dont even understand how whole youll feel once your little baby is born. She or he doesnt know your age and doesnt care. You will still be the best mom and your boyfriend can choose to step up and be a dad or he can get out but Thats your baby and you do what you want.
Elizabeth Spears ·
@deneshajoseph, thank you ❤️
adorable jasmine·
Make your baby don't put up for adoption neither he is sure right when you finish push that bby into This world you wont ever let it go nowhere but In your bed along in your arms ☺the Lord will provide pray that's your blessings don't let it go ok
Elizabeth Spears ·
@mberjuste5, I know. I tried to tell him that and he was like no because then once I see it I'm not going to give it up. So he just wants me to kill it. . .
chelle berjus·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Please dont abort... If he wants to be a @$$ then tell him you can raise the child on your own.. Also adoption is an option. I was adopted and turned out just fine. I thank God my mother didnt abort me .... Theres a lot of ppl who will love to adopt the baby and they even have programs set up that they pay for everything and even your housing etc
Elizabeth Spears ·
@beccataylor0915, thank you *hug*
Becca S.·
Don't let him pressure you into something you're not OK with. Stand your ground. You can do this. *massive hugs*
Elizabeth Spears ·
@beebaby, yeah, like I was crying about it last night and he keeps bringing it up. Like I'm afraid he's going to leave me if I don't abort. Plus it's now considered a fetus and not an embryo.